My mom has a tumor

The doctor told her that tumors on the adrenal gland grow slowly and that's why she has to wait so long. But the thing is she had her kidneys scanned a few months ago and there was no tumor. I'm trying to get her to get a second opinion but she is scared. My grandfather begged me this morning to keep him updated because he knows my mom will keep it from him - same with my dad.

 

Did the doctor offer any type of other diagnosis, something else that could have possibly caused it?

I can totally understand that she'd be scared and that her fear would be preventing her from seeking a consult from another doctor. It's like, she's probably worried, what if the next doctor gives me worse news, so she's trying to protect herself. She's seing a surgeon, or some other specialist? I think you should keep trying to get her to get a second opinion, for the peace of mind of all of you. She just found out, so maybe after a bit of time passes, she'll be more receptive to getting a second opinion.

Wow, I just really feel for you guys! Such a tough situation to be in!

{{{Huge Hugs}}}

 

Thanks I'll keep trying but she is so stubborn. The mass is the size of a half dollar. I'll try to talk her into it in a couple of weeks. Pressing my mom only pisses her off and causes her to be more stubborn. Oh god so that's where I get it. :tongue:

 

Well good luck. I'll be keeping you guys in my thoughts.

 

Good vibes and thoughts to you guys! I'm so sorry to hear this... It's just so scary.

 

That totally sucks.

*good vibes and prayers for both of you*

 

I love you treehugger!