did she confiscate your weed? aren't you in your early to mid twenties? if yes to both then its time to move out. if she didnt confiscate but only yelled at you, then its time to hide it better. but if she went in your room and was snooping then its still time to move out regardless of what anyone says youre not gonna change your moms viewpoint. heater vents, curtain folds, basement rafters, loose carpet, speaker grilles, opened electronics, folded linens, your car, under the mattress, are all good hiding spots. if someone looks under your mattress and finds something they don't want to find, then that's their own fault. seriously.
Unfortunately, it's you're either pro weed or anti weed. Most anti-weed fans don't tend to turn pro (not saying a lot don't) , however it's highly unlikely in the older people, especially the parents that they are going to be weed fenes. If I were you, I'd bow my head in shame and say i'm terribly sorry and I didn't mean to disappoint her -- and that it just really relaxed me. I'd tell her it was rare when I did do it, and I'd finish by saying i'll never do it again. Then i'd hide it from her until the end of time in a special place nobody knows. I mean, she will be a little more suspicious but chances of her walking in on you getting baked are not very high.
I am we just live in the same apartment.....I pay my share of rent and she dnt got the keys to my room.
In that case, have the pot talk, then tell her that you're an adult, and it's your right to have any plant you please, and that you'd like her to buy you a new sack of pot.
Or just play nice with mom and keep it better hidden. Yea you're an adult and yea you're paying rent but there are plenty of things that I would do in front of my friends that I wouldn't do in front of my mom.
Well that's true, but it's not like he walked in with a spliff or anything. (I think) If he said how she found it or where it was, I missed that. But if he wasen't flaunting it, it's just sort of disrespectful of her to go find his stuff, that he paid money for, and destroy it. But she might consider it disrespectful of him to have it in that residence in the first place. I just tend to lean towards openness and honesty when situations permit. I think I have, and will still have to, tell my parents much more painful things than "pot's not the devils weed"
Yea there are some things in your life that you should discuss with your parents and there are some things that many times are just best not discussed. My parents don't know anything about my drug use and I don't think there is anything to be gained by having that discussion. You might at some point have a discussion about pot-but would that really change their minds about anything-would it lead to any great changes in their life or your relationship? And would the next night's dinner topic be a discussion of LSD vs Shrooms? (just kidding).
I had to laugh. sorry. the situation sucks. I left my room unlocked a few week ago and my mom babysat cheesy poof (my niece). I KNOW she went in my room and looked around. My sister and her husband hardly ever come in my room, so i dont worry about them, and anything they find, they know i have, and if they dont, i just plain dont give a shit coz its not like im hiding crack or anything. There is a lock on my bedroom door, but thats was because of the whole Jasmine fiasco. Now its needed coz we taught cheesy to open doors and now no room is safe. My mom did not say anything, but i mean, i have two ashtrays with snuffers and about 15 roaches in each. lol and my rolling tray with papers, pokers, grinders and roach clips and shit. Nothing was hidden. Im sure when i lived with her and came home reeking of weed. I think she knows what weed smells like. but im not living with her. I used to think weed was evil. funny shit.
Good god, you're a fucking marijuana addict. Go suck a dick for a joint, you know it's all you'll ever accomplish in life. I miss my paraphernalia