Evening to everyone . Its been 2 years with my wife . But now sex is weird thing . My wife was virgin , but now she is experienced with me at sex . Her vagina is getting easy wet and she can have orgasm pretty soon . When we start her vagina was very good and perfect for my member . But now i can feel it pretty loose . She had no birth . We are not in hurry . From your experience , do woman vagina the more sex they have , the more excited they get, the more vagina get loose and wet . I mean that is normal . but she now makes me wonder if she needs bigger member . During sex she tells me harder and deeper . Used to have sex often , now maybe some you think i am weird . But i am thinking she might need bigger male member . I dont want her waste pleasure sex when i cant give it to her . Plus it makes me feel useless when i cant make her scream . was her first lover , now she more confident with her body at sex , i made her feel better . but now she seems to be out of my league . I want to talk with her , but she loves me and will get very mad . But i am a male , she loves me and i know her feelings . But her body need more than me . thank you .
Why would she get mad at you for talking about this to her? Don't break down in communication, tell her your troubles. =\
Just curious, OP...where are you from? And basically let me get this straight. You think your wife's vagina has gotten bigger and because of that she needs to be with someone who is bigger than you? That's so bizarre to me.
I dunno, they could work out some exercises. Don't laugh at the power of communication. It literally resolves all relationships. Spewing it onto a forum won't do any good.
I was thinking exercises... kegals and stuff too. But you'd have to find a really delicate way to bring that up and not sound like a jerk.
talk? why ?I am her first partner , and she hasn't any other .She will get mad because some women know there is a problem . But you dont want to accept as a problem . She was virgin with me , we had sex . She now is better at sex and more confident . Now she can have good sex with other male with no emotion involving . Kegel ? thats a myth .
for you its bizarre? How would you make feel if you having sex with woman you love . She asking from you harder and harder , you trying all you got . But there is no scream , no crazy orgasm or no pain after sex . These are marks that your member is good for her or a little bit bigger for her vagina . How would you feel that you cant make her feel great at sex . Can you live with that for the rest of your life . Knowing that there is someone better for her out there.
How ? or you got got over it with time . time make everyone get healed . you need time ? i need time?
Haha, what? Again, where are you from? Kegals are not myths, but whatever. So, I guess you are saying you were good enough for her since she was a virgin but now she isn't and is more confident and she should find someone better than you? Maybe you're right. I don't know, if you're that sure of it maybe you know these things. It's your relationship... you would know. Hahaha.... I'm a female. And let me tell you... if I ever had pain after sex, there'd be a BIG problem with the guy. From me. I'd be hurting him. I have the feeling you're either a troll or from another planet or I don't know... But to pretend you're serious...maybe work on your technique? Maybe try to find things that please her? Talk to her?
I was surprised no one else mentioned that so far. I have bad news for you andrew... the fact that your wife's vagina has suddenly become looser doesn't mean that she is in need of a bigger dick. Au contraire, it means that she is already getting one. A significantly bigger one by the sounds of it.
My post was sattire. If you knew anything about vaginas, you'd know a big dick doesn't make it loose.
You know sometimes it loosens up for other reasons...you say she wants it harder and deeper...maybe shes been getting it that way
That's not exactly what I said. However, nobody is born with a voluminous vagina, and adjustment can occur to a certain degree. If she had previously only been with him and suddenly became less tight and started begging him to fuck her deeper and better, you would be naive to think nothing fishy is going on.