my man wont go down on me!

Hell no! Chain him to the bedposts and sit on his face and tell him to lick away if he knows what's good for him. :tongue:

 

How about you try 69... he may be more happy to oblige if he's getting something out of it too

 

you should try doing a 69 with him as you've been told here. If he does it well... after 69 is finished give him a great blowjob (better than usual). If he doesn't don't give him his "award".

That way he will start to relate giving a good head to receiving better heads everytime he gets better at it.

 

Awesome. I am happy for you and your pussy

 

Maybe doesn't want to? And what's the reference to "my man." Sounds like animal-like mentality. I support free will, so maybe you should ask why? I do love the free speech allowance in here, but cmon, you shouldn't invite negativity towards yourself.

 

you have to figure out if that is going to be a serious issue or not. if so talk with him,if not exlore you might find something you like more that he is willing to do and remember even though sex is an important part of a relationship, its not the only part. howdo you really feel abiut him. if this cant be dealt with figure it out soon and dont waste either one of your time for something you know isnt going to work

 

explore the subject more with him.......(why dont you like it).......if its a taste thing get him to start high...above the clit....then gently down

or maybe mummy told him vaginas a dirty......

hope this helps

 

dump him and come to me. lol

 

Well done on finding a solution!

I had the same problem with my ex. He refused to go down on me but wouldn't tell me why. I didn't deny him anything to get back at him (sometimes I'm too generous for me own good )

Anyway, I gave up in the end but I knew I was missing out as my friends would tell me what I was missing out on...

After we broke up, he told me that it was because he didn't like how I look 'down there' despite the fact that I groomed myself to his specifications. We were together six years.

When I met my new partner, it was one of the first things he did and it totally blew my mind. I really was missing out! I told him what my ex said and he couldn't believe it now saying that I am the sweetest person he's ever had the pleasure of going down on!

Hurrah!

Xowie
x

 

Kadn,

The only thing I can say is that I would lick your belly button, from the inside if I was your BF and take my time doing it too. lol.

No worries Kadn sometimes people have hang up's and understanding goes along way.

There are all kinds of good tasting lubes you can buy, but me I prefer the natural taste of my woman.

Good luck to you.

RT

 

Get a new BF? IDK how long you have been dating but really I believe that if you want something return is always appropriate. If you go down on him when he wants he should be WANTING to go down on you in return not in the same breath but come on guys you got to give your girl some love. I love eating pussy 24/7 I'll do it any time anywhere. Good luck with your dilemma.

 

I don't understand why some guys hate the taste, but he could try some plastic wrap.

I love the taste and wouldn't cover it with any flavor or plastic.

Stan

 

if one more person tells me to leave my man i will scream

ffs its not the big a deal!!!!!

i want tips, advice but if i dont get it im not leaving him

i love him more than anything in this world and im not that petty




jeez!!!!

 

I think there are a lot of people just reading the first page and commenting, failing to look at the whole post and realize, well, mission complete, you solved the problem. There is also a big disconnect between, relationships love or just simple satisfaction. Sometimes there is a give and take in a real relationship... just my opinion. Love ya KADN, try not to get put off too much.

 

I know how it feels sweetie, my hubby doesn't like it and most of the time won't do it. I don't know why. There's nothing wrong down there, and I take a bath daily. I don't get it either.

 

I feel bad for women that are with men that won't go down on them. If a man cares about a woman and pleasuring her, he should want to do that.

 

You're hot kadn
You should try sitting on his face when you go down on him. Slide a finger into your ass or pussy to try and intice him into licking your clit.... Otherwise stop giving him head!! He'll come round once he's been starved for while. If he asks just say since he thinks its nasty going down on you, you've been thinking about it and you're starting to think its nasty going down on him...
ps. Love the little glasses xx

 

I fear being with someone that doesn't have very much in common with me sexually, or in other areas. I feel sorry for the women with men that don't like to go down on them.