Okay, dilemma.....my guy cums SUPER fast. Like, American Pie....Jim & Nadia fast. I sit on his dick once and it's a write off. Not only that, but he's ALWAYS wanting to do it, and i never do, because i always know how it's going to end up......also, i'm really shy about asking him to work on this.....so i dont want to hand him one of those desensitizing condoms, i'll feel like an asshole. good god help me before i start humping everything else in site, but him!