Lots of bad can come from going to the police. Given the typical status quo mentality of most folks, who is the community (let alone the police) going to believe at the start, A longtime pillar of the community or a 19 year girl without any economic means? Get the police involved too soon and the Pastor could and most likely would make good on his threat to charge her with theft of church funds and then Julia AND her mother would be ostrasized and denigrated both in general gossip as well as the local press. Better to contact a women's advocacy group or rape crisis centre and get professional backing before registering any official charges.
This May Be A Troll, Not Suspending The Account Beacause Im Giving The Benefit Of The Doubt, But This Same Thread Was Posted In 5 Forums. Only This One Is Still Open.
i think it would help if there waas a death penalty to rape. or castration. no death. beheading by an olive fork
Even if this poster is a troll, I think this is a very important message that needs to be sent out to everyone that has been raped: Tell someone. Be it the police, or female guidance or anyone. Just makes sure that someone knows because they can help. I personally think that the police are the best people myself.
He's divorcing his wife now and has promised to marry me and do me right. And that we'll move to another county. I feel much better now.
I hate to say this, but it's lieing to you. They ALL say that. If's up to you what you do, but I fear you're going to end up getting screwed over.