My indifference to men?

Either we are just one step ahead, unfitting to the stereotypes and norms due to a great deal or individuality and general uniqueness

Or we suck. Plain and simple

 

lol! I won't let either my awesomeness nor my suckiness ruin my day.

 

heh.

 

lol! I missed that one. The last guy she was "indifferent" about was Shale. It's all good. :biggrin:

 

She will learn the difference between love and sex eventually, on her own terms and on her own schedule. In the mean time, there are boatloads of orgasms to be had, both by her and her partners. :cheers2:

 

Lot's of STD's and babies to :tongue:

 

Be nice. Let's assume that she can handle safe sex, unless we have good reason to think otherwise. It isn't rocket science.

 

We will see!

 

It's simple want respect and get taken serious by a man don't sleep with him
right away.Come on your a little old for this.
Not to be rude but are you here for attention or real advice??

 

What the hell is with the 'guys don't do coffee' thing? Going for coffee can really mean going for coffee. lol

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I cringe when I agree with you... lol

If you meet someone, it seems right and they agree, go fuck... if it doesn't feel right then wait until it does... if it never does, it was likely a good thing.

And never

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This;

is truth.

 

Personally, I would just say that if you aren't feeling the love, you shouldn't force it just to make other people happy. If you don't feel like having sex with someone, then don't have it. You deserve better than that.

There is nothing wrong with free love, it's not my style personally, but I firmly believe in people doing what they want if it doesn't harm others, but if it isn't making you happy, then there is something wrong. Maybe take a break and reevaluate what you really want?

 

That is definitely NOT always true. My boyfriend and I had sex the first time we met, we didn't even go on a date or anything. And now it is 3 years later and we are planning on getting married and having children together, and he definitely respects me.

 

so you fucked him anyway, just cuz you didn't want to let him down? am i interpreting this right?


also i went through that phase between 19 and 20, it goes away

 

Well its obviously not working for the op.

 

a certain amount of indifference is good, but when it's only towards men, that seems a little unhealthy.

indifference towards everyone is probably okay though.

 

if its a straight person, then sexual indifference would make sense.

 

True... but still, it can work sometimes. Although I was totally surprised with myself when it happened. So not my usual style.

 

dam...i get what your saying about not wanting to let the guy down because in that moment you feel like its just you and that person and thats all that matters giving the person all your love...but a one night stand usually leaves you feeling like shit! especially if you were expecting something more from this guy!I think you should just try to avoid any situation that you think might lead to a one night stand! MAybe you should try being abstinate for awhile until you figure out what you want! I know its hard not to get carried away by your hormones but its worth a try!

 

I agree with Cherea. Sounds to me like you're looking for an emotional bond.

 

maybe hippie ....scenester? wtf??? LOL but yes I agree completly with this advice too. Only I don't really just assume someone is a good person because they have dreadlocks? or whatever stereotype hippie thing they're wearing.

LOL