My indifference to men?

If you let us near the cooch too soon...you will always just be cooch

 

How soon is too soon lmfao I have needs.

 

I would say months at least...for soemone you are dating

and never if its a non-dating type friendship..but thats just me

..and we all have needs...but I guess some have more control

 

months!...okay.

 

Touche

 

around here?, around you, you mean

There's at least three types of guys that arent going to want that from you, straight guys that are hotter than you that have options, older guys bored of sex anyway, and of course those of us allergic to va jay jay.

All three types probably avoid you because you spend to much time and effort teasing/controlling/getting attention from the neanderthals

And its that first group you should concentrate on, either you arent attracted to any guys, or the ones you are attracted to dont want to go near you because of this silliness

 

I'll give you some serious advice.

What I said earlier about how if you just give it up we wont take you seriously is true. But sometimes NOT having sex can do much more damage.

There have been girls who I have had a major attraction to. And they would play hard to get. This of course just makes me want them more, and try harder to impress them. Then it would finally happen and it was like "Now that's out of the way, I can pay close attention to you as a person... wait a minute.. I really don't like you as much as I thought I did. My bad"

Don't blame the male sex, we're just as confused as you.

 

asexual is an option.

that said, you can still fuck to further your agenda, and for pleasure.

 

I realize I'm still a way noob and as such my opinion doesn't count, but this thread is still really FAIL.

 

I thought you said you were indifferent?

I'll be honest, when people talk about "intellectual stimulation", I get turned off by all the pretentiousness. What you want is an emotional bond, it has nothing to do with Foucault.

Go to a talk at a university and you'll see what I mean...

Also, from reading your posts, you seem like a hippie scenester. It will be hard to meet genuine people if you pre-select them based on what appears to be "deep" qualities (dreadlocks, free love rhetoric, etc.) but are, in fact, very superficial qualities.

 

Thank god. Whenever guys start giving the traditional "guys don't take girls seriously when they fuck too soon" I cringe.

I'm a guy. I've never responded to some hard-to-get game, so you're "taken seriously." That being said, I also don't see any sense in fucking a guy "not to disappoint" them, either. As though you can fuck them into liking you.

I don't think a general rule of how long a woman should "wait" is smart at all.

 

The whole "I did anyways...didnt want to let him down"

Whats up with that? If you get physical with someone it should never be from a sense of obligation.

 

Not likely to happen. It doesn't work that way. This is an age issue. I think very few people your age find what you are looking for. I know it's hard to be patient, but you don't have much of a choice.

 

Meh, from experience you find 'love' or 'lust' or whatever where you least expect to. So you will find a person you care for, but maybe he might be the most unexpected person possible or found in the least conventional way.

I mean, 'going for coffee' means they probably want sex. Men don't do coffee, or at least the majority do not. I think that's why you are truly dissatisfied, you see through all these little peoples similar intentions.

Personally I am happy to find an equal, because I am going through the same thing at the moment and am finding stereotypical women to hard to bare.

 

Can you really have both? I mean sleeping with someone because you have needs has shown that they don't want to get to know you as a person. So the simple answer would
be to get to know someone and not just sleep with them straight off.

Otherwise the circle will just continue.

 

Your frigidity is the result of a belief that you're nothing more than a sexual object, and the men in your life don’t really love you they just want to fuck you


Hotwater

 

Agreed. Sort of what I had said had I the balls to just spit it out

 

Hey even I want to fuck her and I don't even know her

I just know she's hot (in a physical sense and eye candy for the imagination)



Hotwater

 

Hah, someone get the E-POLICE, we have an e-stalker on our hands here

 

TELL me about it.