my husband wants me to have another man

To me, that all seems to hinge on the idea that people are selfish and can't accept the possibility that someone could love someone else as much as them.

 

Hey ZZGirl....just out of curiousity, How old are you and your husband and how long have you two been married?

 

I say go for it!! If it feels good do it!

 

If you're talking about zzgirl doing it..you're kinda late she already did it if you didnt read the whole thread, if anything you should tell my girlfriend to go for it...it certainly feels good

 

The only thing I cn say is go for it and enjoy BUT don't involve a friend - go to a swingers site and find a suitable guy. Agrre with your husband what you both want from the experience before you go for it. I swing and meet with other couples, single guys and single girls with and without my partner and so does he. We both know when the other is going off for some fun and nothing is hidde. WE are strong and enjoy. YOU may or may not be. Take a look at the site http://connect4fun.co.uk/ and then have a long hard (??) think.

 

Thanks, I just read this out to her and she was a lil' skeptical

 

If he is alright with you having another man, then there's something really wrong with him. My husband would never, ever go for that, and there's no way I'd want to anyway. The thought doesn't turn me on in the least, but I tend to be a bit old fashioned in the ways of sex and marriage. I mean, my husband is the only one I've ever had sex with.

But, if it doesn't bother you, and it isn't against your morals, and you want to do it, then go for it. I certainly don't agree with people, especially married couples, doing things like that, but hey, that's just me. Everyone is different!

Peace.

 

remember to accept the results
of your actions no matter
what you do
if something is telling you to stop
then listen..
dont lose love just to play with sex
dont do this for someone else..

i would like to ask
did your husband ask you or your opinion of a three some...

maybe you both need to play around abit,
if so then you not really ready to be together as one couple
with in the 2 of your marrige.....

sex is not everything but within the heart of a couple is the special
thing sex.... love is only part of what all our feelings tell us
please think for yourself

surely its not worth the stress to have to read all these replys
if you feel its ok then do it ,love will not change, only you and your husband
will feel it in time
if you fear the outcome then put a stop to it
say no im not into this but maybe we could talk about why
you have asked me to be with another man
for what reason ...

my love to you at this very telling time in your
relationship,,
personally now i have 3 kids this sort of thing is so young
so not new ,but i understand how we long to please our other halfs
but how far do you go..
from saff