My husband isn't lasting nearly as long anymore! HELP

My husband is having serious self esteem issues considering we've been married 2 years now and our sexy had always been long and rough and very pleasuring. The last few weeks he hasn't been able to last nearly as long, personally it still feels just as good but he is eating himself alive over it and thinks he's "not pleasing me".

New possible factors;

• I'm newly pregnant, 10 weeks. Were stoked.
• And he is a regular steroid user, just TRT and some Trenbolon. He's been on them as long as I've know him, never been an issue-he is just beginning a cycle on a new brand he's never tried before, could that have any effect?
• And lastly, he works so much he doesn't have any time to masturbate like he used to..

Those are the only things that could possibly be making a difference. Any idea why this could just happen out of the blue? I want my hubby to enjoy sex again

 

Without knowing anything at all, I blame the steroids.

But I've also read a bit of male magazines just to see what they go through haha so I can also say that, I've read at least, that it's quite normal and that the more he sweats on it, the emotional anxiety starts happening and it just compounds the problem. It's actually similar in women too, except we don't have erections, but our emotional anxiety can certainly play a factor with orgasms.

But I still blame the steroids because we all know by now, what they do.

And also, how old is your husband? Because that will play a factor in whether or not anything I just typed out is relevant.

 

is he on any pills to make himself bigger or harder, anything like that? if so, that's the case here.

 

Husband is playing with a volcano much less fire. This depends on the purpose of his steroid use. The only reason for using Tren is to build muscle mass in the sport of body building. But that may not be the issue although from your post this is what is he is doing without you coming right out and saying so. Let's look at what you have observed.

• {I'm newly pregnant, 10 weeks. Were stoked." As well you should be. But this may have an effect on his psych as he now doesn't want to "hurt" the baby by having sex with you. So he loses control, has premature ejaculation, and finishes quickly therefore, subconsciously, protects the fetus from himself and his penis invading your vagina. Lack of understanding how the woman's body works may be the issue. Teach him that he cannot hurt the baby through sex while you are pregnant. I have had sex with women well into their third trimester without any effects on the heath of the fetus. Sex can be very intense as the woman's change in hormones during pregnancy can drive her to wanting it more. This is quite fun as long as the male can keep up.
• "He is a regular steroid user, just TRT and some Trenbolon (sic).... beginning a cycle on a new brand he's never tried before". This might be an issue as the manufacture of the steroid Trenbolone has been discontinued by legitimate labs. Black market production under uncontrolled conditions poses a great risk. The use of trenbolone can reduce his natural testosterone production in overwhelming proportions up to 70%. Then he is stacking on replacement therapy with it. Imagine what this can do to his sexual skill and ability. The caveat is that he may not be able to get an erection much less have sex. If this is the case with him you may have your answer.
• "Lastly, he works so much he doesn't have any time to masturbate like he used to." Certainly masturbation helps with stamina. In fact too much masturbation can promote the condition known as delayed ejaculation. But he would have had to refrain from masturbation in all forms for several months before becoming so sensitive he starts to ejaculate prematurely. I would rule out this notion until you address the other issues, most predominately the change in his steroid use.

Find out if he is concerned about the health of the fetus during sex first. Find information that will convince him that it is okay to have sex while you are pregnant up to a point. If this isn't the issue explore his steroid use. I suggest he withdraw from what you have posted as he is messing with his overall heath and life just for a ripped body. For the new family you two are creating it is time he revisits his goals. Over the long term he is not doing himself any good. This is just an opinion on my part based on a few facts and the limited information you have given in your post. There may be other issues that are not known but what you have written gives cause for concern.

 

My x husband always had a thing about bashing the babys head... so it was never quite right when I was pregnant ... but steroids too?

 

if you want to hear some lies just ask this question on a body building forum...


…... often permanent side effects, including: damage to the gonads (testicles or ovaries) liver diseases...….hopefully his steroids dont affect the baby development

 

i would like to think in this day and age people would know better than to worry about this. but then, you would also like to think people would know better than to take steroids.

 

Well, that would explain why he's your X husband! Violence towards the unborn child is heinous.

I would have wanted to be gentle, while still making every effort to satisfy you.

 

Its the overwork, its killing his sex drive which equals not lasting longer, he needs to clear his tubes three times a week or more, guys need action and lots of it, get him in bed more and not for sleep, no what I mean.