My husband is a dick

Staple his balls to the wall!!!!!



I didnt bother to read a single post before posting myself.

 

what do you mean? I'm lost now...

 

You are fortunate.

Or maybe you have a hidden sense that detects when to read and when not to read.

 

Lost in the shadows?

 

Now you have me lost and worried...still...

 

You got me worried about the playing it safe thing...I don't know. Maybe I'm paranoid because I am so tired.

 

Mr. Play It Safe was afraid to fly
He packed his suitcase and kissed his kids good-bye

 

Don't worry.

Be happy.

 

OH, I get it...
He waited his whole damned life to take that flight, and as the plane crashed down, he thought well isn't this nice?

 

You knew him too?

 

Isn't it ironic?

 

Deja Vudu...

 

Voo doo?

 

Runnin' from my magic...

 

Im sorry tah tthe fact that some people are ok with poly or open relationships is threatening to you. Ireally am, I know its not the thing for everyone but it shouldnt threaten you, it shouldnt affect yourlife in any way.

I do however strongly suggest that rather than mucking about with attacking random folks on the net, you focus on ways to rebuild your marriage (assuming thats what you want) or how best to handl the break (if thats what it ends up being)

And D, dont worry, if this is whats upsetting you. Im used to people being judgemental and being alla round bitches about the poly thing... my cousin does it, why should a hippie forum be any different?

 

Would you leave her alone already? She's not even here to defend herself...she's already having a rough night....just let it rest. Trust me. She is completely innocent, and on the defense right now. I know my sister. She only stands up for what she believes in, which is what you do too, right?

 

Sorry, I don't know that one...

 

There's no need to defend yourself, nor is there a need to put others on the defensive.

You are a smart woman. No need for all of this.

Will you please be silly and happy and cute again?



Just put it all to rest?

 

Ill live and let live if theyll leave me the fuck alone. THe last post was an honest attempt at offering a smdige of advice. Every single thread that As mom and i have poste din has somehow lead to how evil polyamory is or what a terrible person I am for being interested in someone who has a gf (who I am admittedly making -no- moves on til hes single)

And no, silly and happy and cute comes when Im happy, beign depressed for months on end is kindof counter to that, and being attacked for having a slightly unorthodox approacht o dating sometimes (when EVERYONE involved knows whats going on) by almost everyone I know really doesnt help. Even the internet isnt a safe haven anymore. Reasons why I fucking left in the first place. Im out, Im done, you know how to find me if you ahve to D.

 

I really feel that I'm not the one harassing here...I'm only defending my sister. I know the full situation, and your polygamy or whatever the hell you want to call it has nothing to do with what's going on. My sister's husband is, in all likelihood, cheating on her right now, and I think she was more or less looking for support, not attacks. You of all people should know what it feels like to feel alone. All I'm asking is that you give her a break. Now, I've said my piece, and I go back to being happy.