i appreciate the compliments. i should have specified in the first line that we actually have no problems, its just like this little annoying voice in the back of my head like "shes gorgeous man, youre not the only person to realise it"...guys hit on her all the time, but in all respect, she is a good girl.
nono...as i said, she reads the PMs we receive from some folks. she doesnt read the forums, i am actually setting her name for her tongiht. this has nothing with wanting her to secretly read it and be all "awwww" over it...it really was just meant to determine if other people doubt themselves even when things are great...period