my girlfriend's favorite position, and the only one she really gets aroused and comes from is the one where she's on top. she also likes it when i finger her (quite awkwardly because it's not easy to reach) whilst in this position. she says she really needs a clitoral arousal in order to come, and be aroused in general, thus the doggy position really doesn't make her feel anything. i'd assume that the missionary position would do the work as well, because the clitoris is rubbed against my body, but this too isn't very enjoyable for her. i'm very interested in pleasing her, and yet the one where she's on top get's quite boring for me. therefore i'd like to know what other positions there are that will still lead to strong clitoral arousal other than when she's on top.
That's unusual. I've found that Cowgirl and Doggie are both good for reaching to her clitoris. Better than missionary. Both of them have a T-connection between the bodies, giving room for the hand. Missionar's parallel bodies leave no room for the hand. What is your issue with woman on top? If we are to recommend other positions, it would help to find out what makes cowgirl bad for you. Edit: when she is riding on top, try stimulating her clit with the top of your finger, the fingernail rather than the ball of the finger.
since i'm such a nice guy, i'll take one for the team and let her ride me so you can relieve your boredom for a while.
@mikeE answering your question, i don't have a specific problem with the cowgirl, i just like to switch it up for diversity sake. I will try the doggy with the finger on her clitoris. If you have any other suggestions i'd like to know. I appreciate the help.
The laying T is a good position that gives good access to the clitoris. She lays on her back legs raised. You lay at right angles to her, on your side. Your bodies form a T, e.g. her head pointing North, yours pointing West. Kissing and breast play are harder, but it makes reaching the clit easy for both or either of you.
Another good one for clitoral stimulation is your face buried between her legs! Do that enough and I am sure she will let you do lots of different positions.
