you don't find that exciting? then don't do it. wouldn't you want to watch her do it? i've only done this once with a girlfriend in High School. i first watched her masturbate. this got me so hard that when it was my turn i came in like two seconds. it was one of the best orgasms i every had. And that memory is still very vivid after all these many years.
Im always trying to get my ex to masturbate in front of me but he wont do it.. do it for your girl. shes obviously turned on by you so please her
My girlfriend gets so horny when I cum all over her in the shower after getting head. Why wouldn't you?
My girl likes me to jerk it and tell her she can't have it, turn my back or move further down the bed away from her. I don't bother putting any thought into it, I just do what she says turns her on. I am always rewarded in the end so why not? Girls with imagination are more fun.
Not 100% sure you were talking to me but I'll answer just in case. We usually aren't watching porn when we do this and I can look at her all I want as long as I play like I'm content to handle myself and that she doesn't deserve the cock. When she begs I refuse and this goes on for a bit... and then she eventually gets it.