My first time

So today I had my first bi experience, I’ve talking to a guy for about a week or more. We met at my work, work at small place and I was the only in the office. So he met me there my first thought, “ thank God I don’t know him” lol. He was very I mean very nervous, we went into the bathroom got naked. I was standing there thinking wow im naked with a guy and now I touching his cock. He was feeling mine and then I thought just go for it. I leaned in sucked on his nipples and moved from one to the eother. I did that a few times and went down to suck his cock. I went at it licked sucked slid down my throat, licked and sucked his balls. I mean full slutty porno style I liked it. I felt his cock get harder and harder than I stood up asked him to fuck me. I lubed up he put on a condum, I got on a chair I brought in he got behind me was gental till he got it all in. I loved it I pushed back and he thrust into me but it was quick he said he was going to cum, I told him pull off condum cause I wanted to swallow. I put his cock in my mouth and a few seconds later he came and I swallowed it. He pulled away fast said it was too much I wasn’t finshed licking it up. So we stopped cleaned up and he left. I went to put the hair away and it was all wet he definitely was hitting my prostrate I really liked it. So overall it was a quickly and I didn’t cum. Overall I rate it a 5 out if 10 just for experience. Things I discovered I like sucking cock a lot and loved he feeling bottoming with a real cock insted of a household object. I’m definitely going to do it again. Thanks for letting me share

 

sounds too scary for me. I don't think I would ever do it with a stranger. Good luck in your future endeavors.

 

I'm thinking that after talking to the guy for a week or more, he's not all that strange anymore.

 

I remember the exhilaration of being with a guy the first time. It was something I thought I would try one time to see what it was like. The feeling of his cock in my mouth was intoxicating. The hard shaft and spongy head with precum leaking out of it was very exciting. I suppose it came natural to me. Having a cock of my own my instincts told me how to suck it. I knew what felt good to me. It turned out it felt good to him too. He didn’t last long and soon I had his cum squirting into my mouth.
Well that was a while ago now and after many cocks and blowjobs it seems I’m not able to turn back now.

 

Good story!

My first man was very nervous too. We met at my house after I told him I was a bottom and what I wanted. He was so nervous, but so was I. We talked a bit and then I just stood up and took off my shirt and pants for him. I sat next to him on the sofa wearing only lace panties, and put his hand on my erection. That did it, from there on instinct took over and we had a great time. Though I didn't get fucked by him, he fingered me while I stroked my self to orgasm. Then I sucked him until he came in my mouth.

 

I only recently had my first man man experience and im glad it was a stranger. It was a 1-1 in his apt but we found it on a fairly anonymous app. Idk why but my curiosity was driving me crazy. It wasnt odd or uncomfortable or anything. It was fairly streamlined and as good as it could be so far as just getting business done and moving along. But my persistent curiosity of sucking cock i found not to my liking. It is out of my system now and i can move along. Im def a straight man.

 

Yes, I guess your right. Im just too old to get with the times and safe in my ways, maybe a little uptight.

 

I'm definately a straight man too. Believe me, I would be stocking up on Viagra/cialis and fucking my way through the widows or other horny old women, but that is not allowed. My wife had other ideas that she thought would work.

 

It's not the same thing as you are somewhere, minding your own business, and some guy strolls up to you and starts hitting on you; if you make a connection with someone on an app, a conversation tends to happen and they last for however long it takes both guys to be comfortable with doing the deed with each other - or the deal gets broken or can't be reached; I've had such conversations with guys that took a month or more before he felt comfortable enough to do what he wanted to do with me. But guys today have way too much stranger danger going on; once you start talking to a guy and finding out stuff about him, he can't possibly be all that strange any longer, not like the guy who, again, just walked up to you and started hitting on you.

Still, at the end of the day, you handle your bizness the way you need to.

 

I had an experience similar to yours. Met a stranger, all went well and wasn’t that awkward but I don’t know that I overly enjoyed sucking him even though I’d fantasized about it a million times. I wouldn’t say it was bad but it wasn’t what I had expected. I still fantasize about that and more but I’m starting to wonder if it’s all better left as a fun thing to fantasize about.

 

Two good examples of how this isn't for everyone...

 

Congratulations, @Oldernow; I'm so happy for you! I'm glad you went for it and discovered how much you like it. As evidenced in this thread alone, it might not be for everyone, but I do read that the vast majority of guys who try it, love it.

I also agree that the hookup apps and websites remove the stranger aspect to it all. You're not only chatting online to get to know each other a little bit, but you may even meet first for a coffee or a drink. And when you get together, there's more talking often, before you get naked. There's one thing that I'm very surprised about in this entire forum: there are very few guys that seem to play in bathhouses and similar gay and cruising sex venues. Maybe that's because most bisexual guys are married and so don't want to do that kind of "risky" sexual behaviour and bring something home to their wives. But for single me, those venues was where all my man-to-man sex was happening in my first 21 years of living out my gay fantasies. Now that is true STRANGER action. You never even know the guy's name, and often probably never said a word to each other. I guess I was also very fortunate that having sucked well over 200 cocks in these venues throughout the places I've lived (Toronto, Ottawa, San Francisco, and New York City), I never caught any STD.

But eventually it just wasn't satisfying enough for me, so I moved into the dating/hookup apps and websites, because I wanted more connection with the guys I'm having sex with, even just cocksucking. I probably had a lot more internalized homophobia than most guys here (it seems), because my unconscious just wouldn't allow a closer connection with a guy that stranger cocksucking. But when I finally inserted my cock into a guy's ass for the first time, in a bathhouse in Berlin (perhaps far enough away from parents, brother, relatives, and friends) in 2013, the internal wall started coming down. That intimate act just opened up my accepting my bisexuality, and I've only been back to a bathhouse 3 times since. I just no longer want anonymous, stranger cocksucking or fucking. No, I actually want regular suck and fuck buddies, FWBs, though I've only had a couple repeat partners through the hookup apps/sites so far. But even all my one time get-togethers with guys in each other's homes is nothing like real, anonymous, stranger hookups.

But having said that, I do understand that some guys need to know a guy much better before having sex. Superficial understanding of them and their lives is not enough. I get that too. I may be willing to have sex before that stage, but I really am looking for a true friend with benefits, a guy I do lots of regular things with, hang out with a lot, and also have amazing gay sex together.

 

At least you got to try

 

For me it would be a last resort but I'd prefer it to sucking with a man, but as a last resort she tells me she'd be ok with it, sort of. I definitely need Cialis to get my tackle up to the task and give me the confidence to perform for whoever she is.

 

I had my first bi experience about12 years ago, I was in a bar and a guy sat next to me we chatted awhile. Talked about fishing and he invited me to go out on his cabin cruiser (nice) so I agreed to meet him at the marina the next morning. We started out on the waterway and headed out in the ocean. After we got out pretty far, I told him I had to take a leak and he told me it was through the kitchen and down the stairs so I went downstairs, when I got down it opened up to a bedroom. There was another guy on the bed watching the tv I went in the bathroom when I came out the guy was naked on the bed, I was a little shocked but I staired a few minutes, then turned to go up to the deck but when I turned round the first guy was standing there then pulled me to him and kissed me, held me against his naked body I never resisted him and his friend now was behind me and removing my clothes. Although I was frightened, I just allowed them both to have their way I started feeling more relaxed and very submissive. I let them both suck my cock it felt so hard I thought it would burst, then the first guy asked me if I wanted to try sucking his cock so I did. It felt so erotic, I ended up sucking both their cocks. I really enjoyed the second guy more than the first guy, I think it was because of him being very hairy and it only made me feel so much more submissive. I believe he could have gotten me to do anything he wanted, and I would have… mmmm that was my first and only time I was sexually involved with a man. Now I fantasize about it all the time and it consumes me.

 

That’s so hot

 

I love the picture your naked body is gorgeous and awesome!!

 

I had many experiences in ABSs. Unfortunately over the last 20 years or so, most have closed or been closed. Many hot times. Miss it.

 

I am happily married for 28 years. We have great sex but for some reason i wanted to experience a man Here is my first bi experience. Met a guy on Rentmen. He was 35 and I was 55. Went to his apartment. (He is gay) I was so nervous. We sat on his bed and talked a few minutes, then I started rubbing his legs. He then took his shorts off and I did as well. His 7 inch cock was so awesome. My little 5 inch was so fucking hard. We stroked each other. Then we sucked each other's cock. Started kissing and it was unbelievable. I was shooting precum. We ended up doing 69 and I will never for get it. We met a couple of more times, then he moved away.