My ex-boyfriend hated sex, he never wanted to do it. I made sure I was always clean and took a shower even, he said he's not into it and think it's disgusting. When I complained about it, he did it only twice and said never again. As I look back on our relationship, I remember being so frustrated because of it. The thing is that gets to me the most was how I always gave him a blowjob, but he wouldn't please me as I pleased him. I take this as a learning lesson for me, has anyone else had issues like this. Having your boyfriend please you and him simply refusing to. Just wanted to see if anyone else could relate with this.
Yes although in my case it was my girlfriend at the time, and I can relate to how frustrating it is to always being the one giving pleasure but never at the recieving end
I can understand why he is your ex! We all have our limits and have a right to refuse to do things that we are uncomfortable with. I'd never refuse to go down on a woman whom I'm in a relationship with unless she was cheating. I think most guys will push their limits if their partner really wants something they've never done before. I was that guy and discovered I loved doing something that I thought I'd never do after she asked me to! If a partner refuses something that you crave, you have to decide whether it's a "deal breaker" or not. It sounds like you did just that!
One of my partners leaned to my ear and said in a asking tone "sixty nine?" I grabbed her bare thigh and lifted it over my head while pulling her pussy to my mouth as fast as I could. We sucked and licked each other for at least ten, probably more, minutes. During that time she orgasmed and gave me a taste of her cum. How could you not like that?
I had 2 different girl friends (not at the same time, but one right after the other) the first girlfriend, I finally asked her to suck my cock (and I think it was her first time, due to the shocking look on her face after I came in her mouth, but she must of liked it because after that, she sucked my cock every time we had sex) the second one, after about 30 times of eating her pussy, I just put my cock in her face and she took it, and she sucked my cock every time we had sex after that
My wife only sucked for foreplay, she never finished me in her mouth or sucked me with the intention of making me cum. I gave her a hard time about off and on for years. When she was pre menopausal I chided her saying I was sure she must have sucked guys to completion since she always complained she didn’t want cum in her mouth. Out of the blue she catches me just out of the shower and goes down on me, she had never moved on me like that. She proceeded to suck me well, I’m not that easy to get off being sucked, unless the person knows what they are doing. She completed the task even when I warned her I was cumming, she also swallowed. It was a very good blowjob, I later realized once my head cleared that she had done this a lot. She never did it again. I think she just wanted me to know that yes, she had sucked a lot of cock. I should have left her long ago.
My ex wife didn’t like giving oral. Or receiving anal. Missionary and a handjob, that was it once a month. No wonder I went elsewhere (not proud of it mind you)
