my clit

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  1. sammy9595

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    hey guys i have a weird question im a heavy gal and my boyfriend and i where messing around and he got a finger vibrator to use on me but he seem to cant't find my clit he says that there is to much fluffiness down there he said that my hooha is different then what he seen b4 we r both virgins idk how to help[ him find it can some 1 give me some advice plz
     
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    Show him where it is. Grab him by the ears and put his face where you can show him. He will probably enjoy it too. Be the boss and show him.
     
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    i would but my vagina really does look different im not sure if it bc of all the fat or maybe its kinda deformed or something
     
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    A visit to a gynecologist might be in order.
    Have you found your clit? If so, put his finger on it, so he knows what he should be licking for.
     
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    and i have been to
    i have been to my gynecologist she says everything is fine im too embarrassed to ask her where my clit is no i haven't found it yet
     
  6. SignalCaller

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    Well, I think it’s a good opportunity for you and your boyfriend to do some exploring together.
    Have you ever had an orgasm?
     
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    I have never had an orgasm
     
  8. Straight Up

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    Wow..time to step up your Foreplay
     
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    Yea this is my first bf and we can’t find the clit. I wish I could find some where to post my pic of my vagina
     
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    And no I’m not just trying to get guys attention I’m legit serious looking for help
     
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    405, member: 314397"]hey guys i have a weird question im a heavy gal and my boyfriend and i where messing around and he got a finger vibrator to use on me but he seem to cant't find my clit he says that there is to much fluffiness down there he said that my hooha is different then what he seen b4 we r both virgins idk how to help[ him find it can some 1 give me some advice plz[/QUOTE]
    Lay on your back..spread those legs and pull those pussy lips apart and go to town with that vibrator
     
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    Lay on your back..spread those legs and pull those pussy lips apart and go to town with that vibrator[/QUOTE]
    He has done that he has the little finger vibrator and he put it in me and around my pussy lips
     
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    Sorry, Sammy. Most women say a man can't find a clit.

    Some clits have a hood over them, like a foreskin on a cock. I like to use the tip of my tongue to work around and fold the hood away to expose it. Have him start at the opening to your vagina and lick up, separating the labia. The hood should be just above your urethra. He should lick around in a circular motion until the hood folds back. Let him know when he finds your clit, so he will be able to find it the next time. Tell him what feels good and you should have your first orgasm.

    Have him use his lips and tongue and save the vibrator for later.
     
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    So I’m pretty sure he found my clit he tried the vibrator I couldn’t stand that felt weird the. He tried his Tongue and neither one felt good it just felt weird I kept pushing him away I feel so bad now
     
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    Sounds to me like you need to spend some time masturbating, for some self discovery. Figure out what feels good, and gets you off. Then tell your boyfriend. When you’re together, he can keep exploring, and trying the things he likes. You guys have a lot of fun doors yet to be opened. Keep an open mind, and don’t be afraid of the adventure.
     
  16. sammy9595

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    ok I’ll try to explore myself more ty
     
  17. Straight Up

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    Is your Clit getting wet if not use a little lube and go slow
     
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    no it’s not wet I did use a little lube I may try a different vibrator
     
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    Maybe a dildo would be better for you. If you get a vibrating dildo, you can vibrate, or not.
     
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    Ok I’ll try to pick one of those up
     
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