ok first:My personal opinion is to dump the prick but... i can understand that it's a difficult thing for you because you love him... but babe,listen,a cheater is a prick and if youre a prick you probably stay a prick for the rest of your godforsaking life so... it's your choise..stay with him and try to change his pittyfull ass in hope for a lasting relationship and some happiness... or you think about the last time he made you smile...the last time he made you cry...and say goodbye! hey babe,everything's gonna work out OK! peace,love!
lol that would be interesting... Funny thing is I have never heard any complaints... must be me lol. Damn me and wanting to do something with my life instead of devoting every waking and sleeping hour of my life to them... I really think that is the biggest reason why. I mean this one broke up with me because I worked 8 hours out of the day lol that was interesting... and the other one because I wanted to go to college. lol wtf... weird eh? Just outa curiosity, do relationships actually last when you can't see each other 24/7, or is a attention craving situation a must in all relationships? I like to be with the person but mannn things in life need situated too as well, ya know? lol oh well.
You took him back and you're asking us for help? Why do you need help? Is it because you KNOW that you made a bad decision and you want us to talk you out of it? Well, considering that you took him back dispite everything we've said, then I'm not sure HOW we can help you. So please clarify what you need help with. BTW, has he been tested? Have you had sexual contact since the cheating? Maybe you should get tested as well. Not a pleasant thought, but you don't know what kind of skanks he's been fucking with. Unless you don't mind the occasional Herpes breakout.
CONGRATULATIONS! As painful as it all may be, I'm proud of you for breaking it off. No one deserves that.. no one.. Good luck with the new guy hunt! I hope your date goes well.. as well as your search!!
~*dump him sweetheart ~ let him alone and find yourself again in the midst of all your confusion ~ they can learn and love you and not cheat on you but i'd make him friggin' prove it that he wants ME dammit ~ ME! not just somebody until somebody else is convenient ~ cheaters suck!*~
All you are doing by taking him back is letting him know and yourself know that that's ok. Up your standards now and you will up them for life.
On the other hand I couldn't help but notice your name --- the name you chose yourself --- Razor Blade Kisses!!! Are you difficult to form a close relationship with?
No I haven't been in sexual contact with him, we haven't had sex yet for the mere fact I'm not ready, and his ass is definitely getting tested. love. chelsea
Dude dont put up with that! You are exposing yourself to diseases. He is exposing you to them anyways. Who knows if he has done thise before. YOu really deserve better.