My boyfriend wants to have oral sex in a public bathroom

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  1. Naughty

    Naughty Guest

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    I'm a beginner in having oral sex, I have only done it once and that was risky, too risky. Now My boyfriend and I have absolutely no where for us to be alone because the place he lives is far and I'm not familiar with it and also my mom would never let me go that far to him, so he visits me in my area but I cant find anywhere for us to hit it off. The only place is a public bathroom in a pastry restaurant but I'm nervous about this. What if someone comes in and hears us in one of the bathroom stalls? He says we will be quiet and that we will whisper but I'm still nervous about this. I don't want to cancel because I love doing oral sex with him. Does anyone have experience with this or something close to this? I need advice.
     
  2. secret_thinker

    secret_thinker Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    Can you stay in a hotel room? Semi public sex can be super hot, if you have to do it because you have no other option that wouldn't really be a turn on for me.
     
  3. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    I see this ending badly. In the US, if you get caught, one or both of you could wind up on sexual offender lists.
     
  4. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    I think being caught isn't the biggest threat, it's the disgusting germs in a public toilet.

    Fuck. That. Don't. Do. It.
     
  5. Mr.Writer

    Mr.Writer Senior Member

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    Depending on where you live / the weather, maybe it would be nicer to just do it outdoors somewhere secluded?
     
  6. AngelAus

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    I agree with the hygiene issue in public toilets unless you know they're cleaned regularly like at an airport. I would also try indoor swimming pool shower room.
     
  7. MikeE

    MikeE Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    A remote, secluded parkland is perhaps safer and defiantly more romantic.
     
  8. naturegirl1

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    I agree, find a nice secluded spot, in a park or on a river bank/lake side, somewhere quiet & just enjoy yourselves!
     
  9. _Dahlia_

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    Is either of you old enough to get a motel room? That would be your best option. That or a drive-in movie. But there's always the risk of getting caught and becoming a registered sex offender. Don't want that.
     
  10. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    Guys, look where she's posting from.
    Granted, the cities are he just that, but the cites have edges, and limits.
     
  11. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    non-mods can't see IPs. and even when you can, it could always be a proxy.

    sure, her profile says jamaica, but you can put anything in your profile. could be she's there, could be she's a 16 year old who just discovered weed, sex, and hipforums all at the same time and thought the homeland of bob marley would be a cool place to list as a location.
     
  12. Pressed_Rat

    Pressed_Rat Do you even lift, bruh?

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    Actually, most Jamaicans (men and women) don't do oral sex. It could be different with the younger generations. Most Jamaicans find oral sex to be repulsive, though.
     
  13. juicelover

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    So I guess it doesn;t really SUCK!...that they don't!:)
     
  14. dark suger

    dark suger Dripping With Sin!

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    I'm sorry I haven't read what this was about yet but I just had to say before I did that I love this
     
  15. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    True. But it checked out.
    So her issue is a really taboo act, think, oh, Glory Holes in the US, a disapproving mother and a distance relationship.

    Sounds like privacy would really, really help.
    Make him supply a safe clean space.
    OP says she's a virgin. I have just enough romanticism to think that clean is necessary for first times. Because you never know where an evening will go.
     
  16. dark suger

    dark suger Dripping With Sin!

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    I like sex in dirty places if u want him to use u up and fuck ur hot mouth with the chance of anyone catching u and having ur knees on the dirty floor as he slides that cock in u more power to u girl get that d and have a good time
     
  17. Naughty

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    Thanks everyone :)
     
  18. Naughty

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    I am a Jamaican and I'm 17 will be 18 later down in this year, and I love oral sex, its all i talk about with my boyfriend. :love:
     
  19. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    But how is it looked at culturally?
     
  20. wildjack

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    there is no way... wait
     

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