The title says it all. My boyfriend refuses to go down on me but expects a blow job. I don't mind because I LOVE giving blow jobs. However, I'm a woman and my lady parts need some attention too. He had a "traumatic" experience with his last lover where she'd started her period while he was going down on her. Now he refuses to ever put his face anywhere near my vagina. Kinda makes me sad and more than a little annoyed.