My boyfriend lost his confidence after losing a fight and it's affecting our sex life

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by LoveJessicaXoXo, Jan 8, 2011.

  1. vigilanteherbalist2

    vigilanteherbalist2 Senior Member

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    lmao, problem solved
     
  2. PB_Smith

    PB_Smith Huh? What? Who, me?

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    Even though I smell a troll, I will throw out this idea as nobody else mentioned it.
    Did you ever consider concussion or brain damage/trauma to be the cause of his abrupt change in attitude/performance/personality?
     
  3. Zorba The Grape

    Zorba The Grape Gavagai?

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    If this is real, he should dump your ass and not look back. You're barely a human being.
     
  4. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    you know, it hurts when people say that.
     
  5. LeviathanXII

    LeviathanXII Member

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    Repeat after me "I am... A terrible person"
    But your honour those leaves were on my lawn...
     
  6. Cherea

    Cherea Senior Member

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    None of this addresses my post in the least. Your prose sounds positively male. Steps into the ring? Pummeled? Laying motionless? Pool of blood? Ravish her in bed? Her illusions crushed? You even talk about your female impersonation in the third person...

    Why don't you tell us the difference in price between different maxipads and underwear you use? Or whether your vulva is shallow or deep?
     
  7. vigilanteherbalist2

    vigilanteherbalist2 Senior Member

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    lmao, i dunno the answer to that vulva question.
     
  8. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    fraud thread...cant wait to see what happens next lol...i think op should get together with brian in the next chapter but brian has a bad case of steroid dick so op goes back to steve and steve beats the snot out of op
     
  9. Cherea

    Cherea Senior Member

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    Nah, man! Were I the writer of this story, I would make Steve come out of the closet as gay! And send Brian sailing into the night sky of Metropolis with OP in his arms!
     
  10. Jo King

    Jo King wannabe

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    I guess he's gotta go
     
  11. lunarverse

    lunarverse The Living End

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    I believe that was the point.

    Anways, this thread reeks of bullshit. Odd though that someone would make up such a story as this. Usually the obvious fakes are sexcapades, often involving one's relative.
     
  12. vigilanteherbalist2

    vigilanteherbalist2 Senior Member

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    i think the part where "she" started calling out the winner's name was the point at which i really believed she was a troll.
     
  13. lunarverse

    lunarverse The Living End

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    To be honest, right after reading something about, "my boyfriend...MMA fight," I knew it was bullshit.
     
  14. RooRshack

    RooRshack On Sabbatical

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    lol.
     
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  16. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    My names The Imaginary Being....
     
  17. Kinky Ramona

    Kinky Ramona Back by popular demand!

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    That's the biggest load of horsecrap I've ever heard. I'm a fucking girl and I think guys who fight are barbaric. Let me tell you, nothing sexier than a broken nose...well, if the opponent has a broken nose AND a black eye. Your boyfriend's a pussy and you're a dude.
     
  18. Cherea

    Cherea Senior Member

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    And "she" magically disappears...
     
  19. Yazzz

    Yazzz Member

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    How in the hell you guys didn't think that was a troll after the first page I have no idea.

    And like IB said - organized MMA fighting is not survival of the fittest - how often do you see two guys grappling in a real war?

    I do agree with VG though that there is more truth to the story than a lot of people, men and women, want to admit. It's our primitive side though, and in my opinion it's usually the dumbest of us who actually act or make decisions based on that primitive side.

    If OP's story was real, which it obviously is not, she wouldn't exactly be top of the food chain among females being how dependent on perceptions she seems to be and unable to support her man and fix the problem.

    If I ever start mopping around about anything stupid my woman usually will give me a swift kick in the pants and tell me to stop complaining and do something about it, as I do to her.
     
  20. Cherea

    Cherea Senior Member

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    I find pop Darwinism to be neither secret-knowledge, nor threatening. I mean, women openly say it all the time: they want a guy who's strong, and brings home the bacon. Ok,,,I get it.

    To feel threatened by that, I'd have to a) feel myself a loser like Steve; b) not have had success with women sexually in spite of the fact that I do not play any protective or paternalistic role in their lives...by choice.

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    This sounds a little bit like those Illuminati guys who think they are enlightening people with conspiracy theories, which are actually quite old and well-known.

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    Edit: If anything, my experience is a bit opposite. I see a bunch of guys dishing out favors, walking hand in hand with women in shopping malls, with huge biceps, getting into fights to impress them, driving flashy cars, etc.

    And it turns out the alphas are just being used, and women end up fucking sneaky guys like me on the DL. Or, at least they are also fucking guys like me; though it's true I'm not some kind of frail, nerdy, dork.

    But I've seen frail, nerdy, dorks score big in my time. :biggrin:
     
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