We've been together for a YEAR, and I've kept thinking things would get better. He has no intuition about my body, he never makes me soaking wet and beg for him to put it in. He's like an ADD, inexperienced fucker, even though he's mentioned how all these girls in his past got so horny for him, sucked him, and bent over for him! He's super gorgeous, tall, dark and fit but what a disappointment in bed!!! his skills are lame, and so is his penis. Just the other day, I wanted to show him how we can initiate sex by both our clothes being on... to slowly ease into it and let the feeling BUILD. I got on top of him and started humping him a little for both of us to get aroused..... his dick never hardened and he said he needs me with my clothes off and to do it a certain way for him to get hard... that me in my workout clothes wont really turn him on. I'm getting very impatient with this untrainable 28 year old boy and about to say buh-bye. Whats wrong with him? Is he totally incorrigible?
how many times are you going to post this? maybe if you spent this much time telling him over and over and over what you're into in the sack...
Sounds like he probably watches way too much porn, and it's ruining him sexually. Have you tried telling him he sucks at fucking you? Speak up, and tell him how you want it. It's not rocket science.
If he's not satisfying you yet, take control in bed and MAKE get good. Give him a reason to get better.
Teach him. Tell him. My life was exactly like that and in retrospect, I marvel that my partners were mum about the whole thing. I wonder how women think. I only recently got to know that women also orgasm exactly like men. How could I know when I'm not a woman and my only sex education was porn
Talk to him and teach him what you like. Sex is about mutual pleasure. If one partner is selfish, the other should dump them. Life is too short!
Well, my gf is able to cum only from one certain type of stimulation, all the time. We are together four years now, and no, I don't care. So make a cleanup in your head first, after that do cleanup in bed.
Oh fuck, that was me for a long time. No more of that shit. Teach him. If he won't learn, he might have hangups that he either needs to work on, or you need to go your separate ways. There might be reasons why he's not open to instruction, but if it's just ego, then you don't need that shit. Sex is important. You have to be compatible. It WILL affect the rest of the relationship. I don't mean to be a bitch about it, and I'm not saying don't be understanding, but don't settle either.
if the woman didn't show me what they wanted years back I'd still suck at it, being open and honest is the most important thing here. If he loves porn that is going to pull really hard on a lot of it too. Good luck.
Attempt to talk to him and show him and if it doesn't show an effect I say move on, he might be too full of himself to please another and then it's a waste of your time. We only live so long and you don't get to ask for that year back to have again. Just try to be fair and see if he can work with you.
I voted to leave him, but only if you have done your part in speaking up. You have to communicate with him. He is a dumb ass guy. We all are. We need specific instructions!! They help. Tell a guy exactly what you want. We are not mind readers. If this even slightly fails, you should bail for someone who can ring your bell and knows about foreplay and how to excite a woman. At 28yo, I would think he really has never been fucked properly. Instructions!!!
I know exactly what the OP needs; p.s. it's been 9 months, doubt she will be back, unless there are any trollish posts recently about fucking a big black guy at work.
