My best friend ignores me

God only knows. You may see her for who she truly is some day and realise that you were seeing what you wanted to see in her all along. And it will be too late. There's nothing more to say here.

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i suspect you are a sucker for a pretty face...so am i so i identify with that part of your story....but i know i am a sucker for a pretty face so i can stumble through life without the problems that you have

please tell me why this particular woman has a hold on you...why is she better than other women in your opinion?

it sounds like she has no redeeming value what so ever...is it purely physical...you couldnt possibly be in love with her mind?

can we see her?

what about you...are you fat or ugly?...do you have a funny haircut or smell bad?...there has to be a reason she isnt physically attracted to you....its baldness isnt it...

are you trying to date out of your league?


we/i cant help unless you are honest about this shit

 

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you have such low self esteem that you engage in behavior which borders on emotional masochism?

sorry to be harsh, but that would be my honest conclusion.

 

You're a sucker and a pansy. I hope that answers your question.

 

let me try something:

job offer

 

Either you are incredibly naive, OR there's things u arent telling us, OR this woman is a total snake.

Either way, for her to take 350 euros or whatever from you looks a fairly scummy thing to do. Personally, I think most people would make her life pretty shitty. She sounds like a reptile. But you should never ever have got yourself into this situation.

It doesn't matter how nice someone sounds or looks. It doesn't matter how many friends they *seem* to have. It doesn't matter how charming they are with their words. The reality is that the worst people might look totally innocent to the untrained eye.

Consider yourself *trained*...
..grasshopper

Seriously, if someone fucked one of my friends this way, I'd be thinking things...

Like how to set her up.. badly... in some way.

 

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When she don´t have these periods when she treats me like this, she can be pretty nice to me, even if she is dominant and demanding. She can also be very fun to be with.


I don´t feel so good posting a photo on internet forum, without her permission, but I will think about it. If it´s really necessary I might do that. I don´t think guys with more experience of girls than I have would find her good looking, but I do.


It´s definitely not baldness, I have plenty of hair , I am both fat and ugly, that´s right, and I know she prefers guys who is muscular and more good looking, cause they makes her heart melts. I think it´s also very much my personality, I think she find me too submissive.

Thanks. You mean I in some way, fancy when she treat me bad? Maybe unconsciously. Anyway, my self esteem is wery low. I try to work on it, bu it only get lower at the time.

Funny! That´s exactly what she use to say when she is in the mischief mood and want to tease me. Maybe that´s what she really think about me?

? What do you mean exactly? I do have a job.

Thanks for caring! Yes innocent is exactly how she looks.

Bye the way, no harm about snakes. I love snakes, but I watch out if they are poisonous.

 

So.... you just said she's ugly, and a total bitch... and it's great fun, you just love her.

If you're not a troll, you are no more important than a troll, in fact as far as life goes, you're less important. So I shall consider you a troll, just for the sake of being nice to you.

Fuck off, troll.

 

I really hate to tell you what I think you already know, but you need to just drop that selfish girl, and find yourself someone that deserves you!

You are obviously intelligent. Since you aren't even from the US, English must be a 2nd language, and you do very well! Do NOT LET THIS AWFUL GIRL KEEP USING YOU! She is using you for your money and the fact that she knows you are a good person and good to babysit for her.

I know it has to hurt very much to go through this, but it is only going to hurt more if you stay in this relationship. The fact that you gave her presents AND money...and THEN she wants you to babysit, and not invite you to her party. You have just GOT to let that gal go!

I truly don't want you to feel hurt. There are just always going to be women out there that will sense someone that needs or wants a friend, and they will use that for all they can.

There will be another good friend out there! Start the rest of 2013 finding that friend. :sunny:

Dark Suger is right!

 

Hi Lynnbrown!

Thank you for your reply, and thank you for saying I´m intelligent. Even if English is a 2nd language, I am used to write in English, mostly through work, but even i private cases. If I don´t find the right words or if I can´t spell it correctly I use a translation program. However, You would hear me talk English, me doing that is a disaster

Back to the subject then. She has hurt me a lot of times, lied to me and fooled me, but I think what she did this time was one of the hardest. She really humiliated me, by proving she can wipe the floor with me, and that broke my heart. I know I should let her go, but as some of you have said here, the problems is with me, that I let her treat me like this. I use to compare myself with an alcoholic, who can be clean for months, but somehow the withdrawal symptoms gets so hard that they can´t resist them, and relapse into self-destructive behavior. And my drug is her, delicious, but dangerous to me.

For alcoholism there is treatment centers, but not for my problems. I have to deal with it myself, but it´s hard and maybe it will take years.

Have a nice evening :sunny:

 

You sound very lost. You call her your best friend but you actually seem to want a romantic relationship with her. She will never love you in that way obviously. Lose her or prepare for the suffering to continue.

 

any chance you're really into submission? like in a bdsm way?

 

Thanks! Yes, that´s how it is unfortunately.

Bdsm? Do you mean that I might enjoy when she treat me like this? Well, I don´t, it hurts, but it fills me with strong lovelorn feelings. Anyway, I don´t let her beat me up or so.

 

no yoohan...you DO let her beat you up...worse kinds of beatings than with punches and slaps

 

this girl less than half your age?

 

ditch her. if she calls only for favors, she's not your real friend.