hi all, just joined up here to see what this place is all about, and came across this topic and thought i might share my first experience with Anal Play with my wife after keeping this fetish from her for a long time, thinking she may have thought i was a bit "wierd" but she obviously had inklings for a long time that i may have liked Anal play just from some of my reactions to her touching and licking my anal area during fore-play, but she was too shy to ask me so we both went for years not ever talking about it, that was until the following happened. ok, to start with, i am a 57 year old male, have been married to a beautiful filipino lady (who is now 51) for near on 20 years, and have a pretty good relationship, and spice things up with a variety of things, however she always drew the line at some of the things i wanted to try with her, and that was me having Anal intercourse with her, after we had tried it several years ago, and it was too painful and uncomfortable for her, so we never did it again, however she is ok with me rimming her anus and using my tounge to insert into her anus because she finds that part quite pleasurable, and it is only very shallow anyway (probably only 1") i have been into anal play for many years (probably started in my mid 20's) and back in those days you never talked about this stuff openly with other people, let alone your girlfriends, most would have said you were "gay" or some kind of "wierdo" so it was always kept to myself. when i got married i also kept my desire for Anal play a secret for many years because i assumed my wife may have also thought i was wierd or even Bi-Sexual, especially because she was asian. anyway, it turns out that around 5 years ago my wife slowly became suspicious of my passion and tested me out one night (i vividly remember the moment) and that was the moment that changed my life and i ended up revealing everything to her, and it was one of those real life changing moments. over the years i bought my wife many different sex toys and dildoes, and secretly bought different ones for myself because not all of them turned out to be very good and i would end up throwing many of them away and try new ones, but one time i bought her one of those new "strapless strapon dildo's" that came onto the market and became very popular with women, especially being designed for Girl-Girl (lesbian) use on each other because of the way they were designed, and i bought one for her to use while i was not around (she masturbates a lot) but also had thoughts of using it myself. during one of our nights locked away in our bedroom, we started off with our usual massage on each other, i gave her one first, then she started mine, and with our massages we often use a wonderful product called Nuru Gel (as in nuru massage gel for those who dont know of it) and she started off by straddling over the top of my legs to massage my back and butt with this gel. she then leaned over my butt and started sliding boobs over my back and was sliding her groin over my butt cheeks, and it was then that i felt something odd was going on, and i could feel something hard sliding between my butt cheeks, and it was so fucking good, and after a short while of sliding up and down the inside of my butt crack, she moved back and put her hand down there, and i felt something hard and slippery rubbing gently around my Anal area but i still had no idea what it was, felt like her finger on reflection. to get more pleasure from it, i spread my legs open to the sides so she had better access to that area, and after a few moments, she had me in an absolute state of pleasure, and that was when she made the move on me that changed our sex life so much. it was then that i thought she had one of her toys in her hand while rubbing whatever it was around my anus, she then started teasing me by inserting the tip just inside me every now and then, each time a little bit more until she knew it was really getting to me, but was holding out because it was her way of teasing me, and thats where i thought it may end. for a few minutes of working that thing inside of me about 2", i was ok, but it was driving me insane, and it was right at that moment that she just blurted to me that she knew what i wanted her to do, and bang, right then she gave her groin one big thrust on me and the dam thing slipped all the way in and that was it, she started giving me the absolute time of my life. after that, well the rest was history, and from there we went doggy style for a few minutes, and after that i just rolled onto my back, lifted my knees back onto my shoulders, and she just went for it, and that was the very first time i actually had a full on squirting orgasm from using a dildo, i had never quite achieved this level of pleasure while using my own toys on myself, because to me, using dildo's on myself has never been that successful, just never able to manage the ideal way of doing it, but having someone else in control, just makes it so much easier and a whole lot more pleasurable, and you can guide them to the best way of doing it. i also want to mention that whenever we plan for a big night of fun, while we shower before hand, we always give ourselves an anal enema, and i always make sure i am shaved around my genital and anal area, i hate hair down there, and my wife hates having to pick pubes from her mouth all the time, and it makes for a much more pleasurable time for both of us. we have now moved on from that particular strapless strapon dildo to something a little bit longer that is more the shape of a real penus because my wife uses it as well, and she prefers that type of dildo anyway. i need to mention that for me, i am not a fan of thick dildo's, i am pretty tight down there, as i figure lots of other people are, and i prefer it long enough (around 7") that it hits my upper wall G-Spot and my bladder area, but not so thick that i am in pain during the process, and now i understand it when my lady tells me its not the size, its the way you use it that matters, and she cant handle anything thick in her pussy either, but she still wont let me do anal on her after the first time we did it several years ago, it just isnt something she likes. anyway, just wanted to share that with you all. cheers
dam talk about stress a new member out, i know its a long winded story, but its the only way i know of telling a story right, and after i read the "reported" post above, i was wondering what on earth i did wrong anyway, looks like a pretty decent place, some interesting topics to say the least, and the variety of topics is so vast, outside of the "Love & Sex" forum i mean. cheers
spammy links ??? huhh, they were links to an online sex store showing the dildo's i was talking about, put them there just for reference, i was not aware we are not allowed to put links like that in the forum, i have already seen links to worse things in other posts while browsing thru the site in recent days. anyway, was not put there as spam.
Looks suspicious, especially if its a new person first couple of posts with links to commercial sites
would have been nice if that GLENGLEN person had of added more to his post to explain why he reported my first post. i was going to put links up to the actual images of the items i linked to, maybe then it would have been ok ? cheers
well nothing would surprise me, from his profile, it certainly looks like he is a full time resident and prolific poster in here.
/Fixed Anyhoo, back on topic, you do know where this: is inevitably going to lead you to? I'll give you a hint, its big and fat, and rhymes with sock
i wouldnt worry about that too much, i might like anal play with my wife but i certainly am not gay. isnt there a rule against altering text when quoting someone elses post, every other forum i am in you cant do it.
hell, i think even the mods do that here derf. i find it a bit annoying myself because unless they are fixing a spelling error, to me it wasnt broken.
Wow, so after 57 years of life, you've realized that you like a dildo being rammed up your ass. Good for you bud!
thats why i asked the question, because i actually thought Kangarooter is a moderator of this forum ? Huhhhh, i am 57 now, so how could it have taken 57 years to realize that i like a dildo up my ass ?????????????????? i highly doubt that you read my story properly, because if you did, i seriously dont think you understood it properly.
