Something I've wondered before, for those who masturbate more than once in a day, do you get to a point where you feel like it's just been too much? For example, if I'm just having a lazy day at home, sometimes I'll masturbate up to three times that day; when I wake up, sometime during the day and right before bed. At that point, I feel like it's enough. Not that I can't more, but trying to fit in another would be too much for one day. When I was in my teens my record was six times, but now that would just make me feel guilty. On the other hand, does anyone feel there should be no peak number and to just do it however and whenever? After all, it's just an orgasm and it feels good, no matter how often.
To me masturbating three times a day is not healthy. Even once a day is too much, especially if it's done in conjunction with porn. There is an epidemic of men these days who jerk off so much that they cannot get it up with an actual woman because their brains have been completely rewired. Just because something FEELS good does not mean it is good for you. Maybe try actually connecting with real women.
Just the fact that it only took you six minutes to reply in a section of the forum regarding masturbation about how masturbation is a bad thing...hmm...
They probably send their girlfriend an email telling her that they are to tired to go out after a hard day at work banking. Hopefully she will not notice that they have spelled banking with a 'W'. LOL.
That's the dream, doin it with a real woman. But I'm really shy, like uber shy around girls. never had a gf, never touched a girl. So since I can't get a girl, masturbating is all I got. Ah the life of a 26 yr old virgin. I try not to do it with porn, tho cause its not respectful to women. But sometimes I just can't resist. Anywayz, obviously I masturbate more than once a day. I think even if I get the feel that it's too much I just can't not jerk off. So now I just do it however and whenever. Even if I feel like a total loser after the third fourth time.
Of course it is bad. Masturbating too much has a lot of negative effects on real sex. The data is out there, it reduces sensitivity, decreases a man's ability to maintain an erection during intercourse and finally psychologically will make him prefer jerking off to real sex...since it feels better and is unaffected by a weaker erection. Every guy wanks it. We all do. IMO 2-3 times a week is healthy, beyond that your taking risks.
I have to agree Pressed Rat, Masturbation is great to enhance a relationship with a woman. The older you get it is good to keep the prostate healthy. Everyday is not needed. My wife and I masturbate as part of overall sex life together. When we have been apart from each other for extended times we do masturbate. At these times it is done for our health. Most of the time we let our mood tell whether or not to masturbate. We lead a healthy active sex life together.
Just to expand on this, it's not a personal question for me asking if I do it too much because most of the time it's just once a day before bed, every once in a while not at all, but sometimes more than once. It's more of polling the general mentality of it. Also, just saying 'have sex instead' can't be an end all, because some people who have sex every day still end up masturbating 2-3 times because their drive is so high. I guess a better question would be, when you masturbate do you keep a mental count of it and think you should only be allowed X more times, or is it jerk-cum-walk away whistling, as repeat as needed?
Three times a day isn't that much. If you're that horny, do it up. Don't let people get you down about it. Be free and have fun. The last thing you want is an accidental pregnancy. When I was younger(teens and 20s) I would double up on em. I'd wake up do it, lay there for a few minutes and do it again. The afternoons were always a double. Before bed usually only once. I was a professional bike racer so I was super fit. I could ride 450 miles a week and still do it 5 times a day. Do it up dude.
ya when im home and have nothing to do i spend all day watching porn. ill ejaculate then ill wait an hour and start again.ive been doing it for years. i dont think theres anything wrong i do what feels good.
My record is 14 ejaculations in one 24 hour period. I was much younger. I still can ejaculate 5-6 time in a 6 hour period even though I am in my 50's now.
As often as I can get to it, often several times one right behind the other when time and opportunity allows, even after I'm dry, and it starts to hurt up inside when the spasms start 'cumming'. It just feels so good to lay back, spread my legs & 'do it' -- just so 'there' for the taking! And there's no limitations or restrictions in fantasy regarding who you can fuck or eat or whatever you want to do with them, or watch them doing, etc. The sky (and your salacious imagination and those lifting, stretching, tugging, stroking fingers!) are the limit! If you feel the same, send me a message -- we'll enjoy a cyber-session!