Moving in with Friend?

they decided when they got back to rearrange all the furniture. Which is looking awesome, dont get me wrong, but really? and as far as the cat shit goes, I have no idea.

 

I'd tear them a new one and shit on their furniture.

You don't want to move in with someone who did something like that...

 

move in and make her bed the new cat shit receptacle.

 

that's really not the only reason why I decided that.
I spent the whole month trying to get her place clean. It was awesome. Always had clean dishes, the counters were spotless the majority of the time..
Less than 24 hours later and had I gotten a picture of the counter you would have seen half her dishes laying around, used, half eaten food in them, sitting waiting to rot (which I know will happen because she never does dishes- an acclaimed fear of mold). If she wants to live that way, it's her own prerogative. But if I'm going to live with someone, I want them to work with me, not against me. They're great people, and I'm not going to ask them to change their lifestyle just because I don't like it. I just think it's best that I don't move in. All it would do is create incredible stress for me and possibly ruin our friendship.

 

Good choice. Too bad tho. Sounds like they are asking to get sick,living like that. You never really know someone until you get close to the life they live in their home. I hope you find a place where you can feel comfortable. She loses.

 

I'm sure I will. I have friends that need roommates and the bf wants to move in together as soon as we can. It'll all work out. I just need to be patient.