So my wife and I have drifted a bit but recently she has been reading romance (erotica) novels and we are starting to get back into things. She isn't prude because we have explored a lot. We both hate porn with fake women, oral sex for 30 min and no plot. We would like to find a cross between softcore and hardcore. A love story, something romantic. No fake or over dramatic moaning. No long periods of oral sex or nipple play. But we still want see sex, see the man explode in or out of the woman. Not hide the parts. We are kinda lost, how do we bring this dirty romance novels to life so we can decide where to fill in the gaps? Thanks!
My advice would be to wait it out till 50 shades of gray comes out in the theaters Seriously I don't know of anything much between softcore and hardcore. back in the 70's & 80's pornos tried to have a plot, but most wanted just straight sex and no plots, and it's not like these people can really act well, so... The other problem is it's not like there are many video stores with porn as most just watch it online. That said, well over 10 years ago I had a black market Direct TV card which got me everything including their porno stuff and actually it wasn't bad, showed everything but the movies had stories, the people were good looking and was kind of like what you are talking about, so you might look into what your cable service offers, but I'm sure it will run your bill up, but for just a movie or two, maybe not... Now what I have seen that somewhat is like what you are describing (granted it's online and there are no storylines here) but it's mostly tasteful sex rather than raunchy sex is this: For late 20's and up - http://www.keezmovies.com/video?search=puremature for teens & early 20's - http://www.keezmovies.com/video?search=x-art Granted that's just one FREE website with searches for each of these, however "puremature" and "X-art" have their own websites where you can pay to be a member and download videos if you're foolish enough to do that, but overall these types of pornos are much more tasteful IMO and not degrading towards woman, but as far as a complete movie with a storyline and all, good luck with that one
Thanks I will look into your suggestions. It's amazing how much these books open her up. I just am hoping we can apply it to us. She's 42 and I'm 37 so it's time to rekindle the magic.
There's plenty of couples porn with stories still you just need to look for it. Those pirates movies aren't bad and the scenes aren't drawn out for 30 mins, they're quick and to the point. Private brand movies are okay with stories from memory.
Private productions are a good suggestion as Yggrasil mentions as they seem like one of the more "mainstream" production companies which actually try to have a plot and have good looking people genuinely.
I can not figure out what is wrong with oral sex for 30 min? Not sure why that is something a person would want to rush through.
I'm speaking only as a solo consumer, but I really enjoy watching sensual, romantic sex, and that tends to fall into the "couples porn" category. Definitely not watching it for the "stories" though! I've seen one or two recent Playgirl-branded videos with pretty most of the same on-screen talent as current Hustler/Penthouse videos, but seemed friendlier to couples/female audiences. Maybe look into those.