I've been bedridden for four days, which has given me lots of time to think and watch movies...mostly chick flicks - big mistake. Now, I don't why I never really thought of this before, but...movies lie to us about how relationships should work. Every movie I've watched these past few days has involved a man falling in love with a woman and pursuing her until she begins to love him too. I'm sorry, but that has never happened to me. I've always been the one to fall for a guy and pursue him...I cannot say I've ever been pursued by a man. Either movies lie, or I've been severely ripped off in the relationship field.