There's too much people, it's loud, if you do well people cheer, if you don't do well people laugh, there's so much....togetherness, if that makes sense. It's not peaceful.
Bowling just stinks. I hate it. If I didn't knew better I would think it is only suitable/fun for children's parties so I certainly can't picture anyone going bowling on a date. Last time I did went to a bowling hall with friends I just drank too much beer out of boredom The group next to your own is also generally very annoying I'd rather go to a bad movie and entertain ourselves in the cinema anytime.
where u guys goin to dinner? for the movies...keep Movies 10 in mind. it's movies that are out of the normal theater, but a lot cheaper. so maybe its not a great idea for early on, don't wanna look like a cheap skate.
bowling is fun as hell. it does require a certain amount of beer to be consumed though. take her to shoot some hoops then.
you look pretty white, PR. you will fit right in at the bowling alley. i freakin hate "cosmic bowling" where they turn down the lights and blast pop music. i like to try to bowl well when i go.
As Pressed_Rat said, he is a pretentious twat. Undoubtly this so-called date is a gonna be a celebration to his glorious self.
consuming of beer is unrelated to my perception of fun. but then so is the company of humans. my movie advice is that movies have an agenda, which involves your mind, and someone else's gain.
It is fun to have SOMETHING to do, that together that stimulates conversation and activity. Another idea is minature golf, or petanque, or galleries, or pool, or fooseball, or spectate. Believe me, i find a little competition super sexy, and if it's physical...even better. Now maybe because I'm a league bowler with amazing form and an amazing ass, I've gotten more out of than other girls. Ha....just rubbing it in.
Now then, what is your average? Bowling average, that is. You sound social and physically active outside the house. Somehow RT doesn't seem full of people like that. People here seem quiet and kinda socially introverted in real life. Not trying to generalize or demean. Just my impression. Bowling is different today. Some places have some good food and satellite TV. Some have big screens with movies. I can imagine new bowling-date lingo. "You two were blowing?" "No. We went bowling." "So, how was your date?" "It was a gutter-ball."
Not all restaurants are loud and crowded. I hate those too, but I'm sure there must be a quiet, small restaurant with great food somewhere in Rochester. I think the hole in the wall type of places always have the best food/environment. I mean if she's taking you out on Saturday, she should be the one to choose where to go. Bowling is a terrible idea. Miniature golf is even worse. I want to take Sophia to play miniature golf, she's 3 1/2. It's a suitable activity for a child. Fooseball? This all sounds so... American.
How about singles tap-dancing? Somehow this sketch seems fitting for the atmosphere of this thread. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PsdZtbs5aUo
BTW Happy Birthday Matt, I hope whatever you ended up doing was fun. I think when trying to decide what to do the most important thing to consider is who you're dating and what the person is into. We all like very different things, but try not to be the guy that's always "so what do you want to do?". I hate when a guy can't plan something fun to do on their own.