I have been a single mother for five years. My two kids are boys and it has been okay. But it has gotten to a point where i as a mother have to do what a father should be doing. My son is 14, he had been masturbating so much that his penis inflamed and now he can't retract his foreskin. I was embarassed but i took him to a clinic. They prescribed him something, but i find this awkward for a mother and son to share an experience with, i had no intention to see his penis again after his nursery days. This time i had no choice, i am hoping this doesn't make it awkward for him and i.
dont be embaraced i dont think it will. my mum told me about sex and all that stuff. my dad didn't because he was never that comfortable talking about it. im sorry you had too become both a mum and a dad. i wish u and the son all the best
your a mother, you would be first port of call even if there was a dad... why would you worry about the future.. if he had a ring stuck on his finger.. would that bother you? he is 14, a kid...your kid! it shouldn't even worry you.
I wonder if this is something where he is stimming for some other reason besides natural puberty issues. Compulsive masturbation can be a form of stimming at times. I'm not a professional on the subject, but here is a bit more on it. https://www.aspiescentral.com/threads/compulsive-masturbation-as-a-child.5337/
