I am 17, and over the past year or so, I have noticed my mum and dad doing it, but they only do it like once a month. I am sat downstairs in the lounge, and listen in closely on them from downstairs, and I can hear my mum going "Ohhh" and arse slapping. My heart beats really fast just hearing them, and I get nervous and a little curious at the same time. I am curious as to what exactly they are doing, whether they suck each others' genitals, get naked or whatever. After it, my mum goes to the bathroom and has a wee, then my mum gets back into bed, and my dad goes to the bathroom and washes his hands. I don't say anything, and sometimes I just don't want to hear what they get up to!!! They do it at like 12:00am, and last about 10-15 minutes. Luckily, my mum doesn't scream out loud when she does it, and I ain't a voyeur or anything, but I can't help wondering and getting a little curious as to what they get up to. I have NEVER walked upstairs whilst they were doing it, and wouldn't even want to!!! My parents are like 46/47, and the thing I don't understand I why they have suddenly been doing it over the past year or so. I think it's because i'm 17 now, and i'm that bit more older and mature. My parents never did this kind of thing a few years ago, or a decade ago, from what I can remember.
you are 20 years old which means your mom is probobly 40 or so which by the way is when most women reach their sexual peak, so you need to just show some respect and some maturity and accept the fact that your mom has every right to enjoy her self and have sex. Either accept it or move out on your own where you will only here neighbors having sex thru the wall of the next apartment
Well said! I see my mother as a woman and it wouldnt really phase me if i heard her having sex. I have sex, and im a woman too. Sex between adults isnt anything "gross" no matter who the adult is...its just a little different if its your mother for the reason stated above, so just try not to dwell on it!
I never heard or saw my parents having sex. I heard and saw many a vicious fight, though. *sigh* I wish it had been the other way around.
I hear my parents having sex all the time. who cares. Infact my dad recently got some KYJelly and my mom got that stuff that makes her vagina warm and moist. (they left them on the counter the first dy they got em, and my friends and I were looking for a cord and found em 6 years back aswell) Actually, like chris they only have sex when my brothers (18) and I are home. so usually when rachels goen and they think we are all asleep. Its been going on ever since I changed religion(my sister would brign it up in the morning durign breakfast). If Im ever pissed at them and wanna ruin it for them, I could shout "Thats how I was made!"
AHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA me to man and everytime there finished the next morning they make egges and bacon and omg then my mom makes a comment about how she was sik last night. I THINK ITS DISCUSTING and on top of it the guy is my moms bf now that bed is X'ed never going on it again blaaahh
I remember the first time I heard my parents having sex. I was 7 and it was REALLY disturbing for me. They came back after a night out, and they thought I was asleep. Then I heard the banging and moaning. My heart quickened and I felt petrified, and I kept silently shouting GET OFF MY MOTHER. I didn't really mind that my dad was having sex, I minded that my mum was having sex, which was weird, but I've never been especially close to my dad. I wanted to open the door and shout at them to make them stop, but I did NOT want to see them. So I just put my pillow over my ears. I reacted badly to that, but I was only 7 and didn't really understand sex and human needs. Now I'm older, I still hate hearing them have sex, but it doesn't disturb me any more. I just listen to music or think about cool colours.
its gross because its my mom and dad but i cant really say anything because they have to listen to me have sex everyday and almost every hour. Right now you think itrs gross and nasty but you need to realize oneday that your mom is an adult and when your an adult you'll do the same thing she does and your kids will think its gross just like you do now. I would just get over it and not let it bother you because there not going to stop having sex because you think its gross. If you dont like hearing it stay in your room and listen to music really loud, watch tv, or just do something that makes it so you cant hear them.
LOL, thats pretty harsh but funny as hell! Sadly your just gonna have to deal with it, you might wish to talk to your mom and um maybe see if there is a better time or something. The ups and downs of it (I had to say that) is its her house, she obviously is capable of having fun so dont ruin it for her. Bring your BF home (age appropriate only please) and see if you can make her go nuts having to listen to you two go at it, lol
Oh Gypsy - your reaction is sooooo normal. I felt exactly the same way about my parents and my daughters have made the same comment to me. Only they weren't shy about it - "Dad, that's gross, wait till we're not around. Ewwww." So we've made more of an effort to be discrete for their sake (and ours). But iceteapriestess is totally ON the mark. When you realize your mom has always been a woman first, your reaction should gradually change. But it CAN be hard for kids to see their parents as sexual beings, which they have always been. Part of growing up I guess.