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I'm not sure if this is the place for me but it's worth a try. I've asked on some other sites and basically been told to go away.

I am very interested in bdsm ( on the lighter side) especially with a couple. MF or MM I have connected with a few people on the Internet and even met one person who was interested as was I. But the problem is how can I get over the fear of giving up control to a stranger even though that is what excites me. unfortunately the men I have had relationships with have so far not been interested in pushing the boundaries. And craiglist is just not safe. I live in a small town where there are some swingers "groups" but they are not really what I'm looking for as they are all about wife swapping and not kink.

Any advice?

 

If it's bdsm that interests you, you could do worse than explore the Zity.biz forum.

You might find some interesting discussions here too, in the sex section - but this is not a "sex site" as such. It's about a whole range of non-judgmental open-minded lifestyle choice issues. And free speech.

 

No I wasn't expecting or looking for a sex site but a place where I could perhaps get some advice. I Am abviously not going to enter into a room with and be comfortable giving up all power and control to a stranger. That's just not safe. So I'm trying to figure out how to find out if this is in reality what I want and if the fantasies I've had for years, from early teens are in fact what I truly want and need. I believe it is but how to do it safely