My most romantic moment with a woman was talking for 4 hours (naked, in a hotel bed) with a prostitute before having sex and not being required to pay. I don't think I've ever felt so comfortable with a woman before and, under different circumstances we would certainly have been lovers. It was as if I knew her all my life. We could talk about any and everything. There were many gestures women have made toward me (probably more so than I have for them, although I am very good at offering emotional support in hardship), but I take both compliments and gestures from women very, very hesitantly. I always feel there is a catch. Not the least of which, becoming an object of possession. If more women took the risk of showing unambiguous interest, offering serious heartfelt compliments, and making gestures of appreciation before claiming ownership over my body, I wouldn't have been on edge as much and I would feel more able to do the same.
i put misery in my vcr. i don't really know how romantic that was, but i only had 2 movies at the time and we had already watched requiem for a dream. yeah, so it was more boring than romantic, but it got me laid anyway...
my late wife and i met when a hotel double booked the room. i walked in on her in the shower, and when the hotel was completely booked up, she let me stay. then she seduced me, and shall we say, it was a very hot, romantic evening. jrnyman has done numerous romantic things for me... it's the little things that mean the most. telling his parents they needed to leave our home when they were being rude to me... that one meant a lot. i love doing romantic things for my lovers. i have to be pretty gone over someone to get all romantic though. i like to write notes and leave them in random places. treasure hunts that end with a special meal i've prepared, with rose petals and candles and such. taking her somewhere she's always wanted to go but never been able to. spontaneously calling just to say i love you... it's the little things that make the biggest difference, and keep romance alive.
When I came to visit him we went to Tahoe and he proposed on a bridge overlooking Emerald Bay, nervous (he never gets nervous lol) offering me the most awesome engagement ring I've ever seen. It pretty much rocked We went to have drinks afterwards, only to realize I forgot my ID and the first couple places we went to wouldn't serve me.
i don`t like romance, to sweet for me. But still a the most romantic thing was maybe when a guy hugged me and told me he loves me form the first time he saw me and for 2 years every night he had gone to bed with the though of me in his mind ,crying....it was kind of depressing to hear that, but it still is the most romantic thing i have experienced
I'm not sure about all this romance stuff. KC busted out in a foot massage for me the other night. I was shocked as hell. I put my foot in her lap and she grabbed up some lotion and went to work. Damn That was great. Does that count????
I remember that story, the first time I heard it I was shocked. I've not really had much romantic done for me or that I've done for others but this thread is far less depressing than I thought it'd be.
One of my supervisors is a Journalist. He has a grant he gives away anually to a writer, and I'm pretty sure he's giving it to me. My coworker, who I'm crazy about, is while not a better writer than I, a much more dedicated writer than I, who has just finished her first manuscript and is searching for a publisher... both needs and deserves it more. I'm writing my supervisor Friday to reccomend her for the grant. Valentines. :biggrin: She's also very intrested in acting, and I'm writing a short film for her, a lesbian noir murder caper, which we'll shoot later this year. Haven't told her about either yet. These are the most romantic things I've done lately.