Most Gay Men Don't Wear Skirts!

I don't know. I have been gay at least since age 12. It bothered me at first. But I have been comfortable with my sexuality for at least 30 years, I think.

But some things still bother me. Like the misconceptions people have about gays. That they like to dress as women, for example. I think most of them don't.

Also, FWIW, I once read in the Merck Manual (a short text for doctors, by doctors), that most gays are bothered by that kind of behavior. Just to be clear, I am not bothered at all by that behavior. To each his own, I strongly believe. But it doesn't appeal to me either. I like only masculine men.

I do actually have a theory why people think this. They don't want to accept, at least fully, that some men are gay (even if they are not overtly homophobic). So they try to rationalize it. Gays are just men who want to be women, they reason.

Also, as many of you may know, I do have fantasies about being f-'d as a woman by a hetero man. But I have no desire to wear a skirt. And I have no way to act out this fantasy in real life either. (Actually, it may be a lingering threat of my previous (<age 12) heterosexuality. But that's a different story altogether.)

 

I am delighted to wear my kilt like a true Scotsman !

 

Most men that wear skirts and what not are typically straight

 

i love wearing a skirt

 

Me too. And big long patent hooker boots and I'm totally straight

 

Yeah, it might be an old stat because I heard it a while ago but it makes sense when you think about it

 

From what I've read, that does seem true for the most part.

I'm a bisexual married guy that happens to really enjoy crossdressing myself... Again, I'm definitely not "straight", so it's not always true though.

As a bisexual (and submissive), crossdressing bottom guy, I'm just as in touch with my feminine/Sissy side as I am with my manly/masculine side... And I'm not sure about anyone else, but my crossdressing, feminine/Sissy side isn't always just about getting a sexual thrill/getting off, although when I do get "all girly", my need, craving/desire to be with a "real" man definitely gets stronger, and my need, and desire to be with a woman (my wife included) definitely decreases.

 

There are no absolutes when it comes to gay people and skirts.
I personally know a gay couple that has well defined alpha/beta roles and the beta is completely femme. He wears women's clothing a lot of the time but has no desire to change his gender. He uses he/him. He is openly gay. And the alpha loves his femme boyfriend.
We also have another gay couple for friends where one of the women is always femme (in girly clothes) and the other is definitely the dominant butch role.
I also know gay men who insist gay is one way. They've told me 'acting' bi is a cop out and a lie. Whatever.
Sometimes I like crossdressing. I'm not gay or trans. I'm bi. I like the way it feels in a skirt or dress. Girls are lucky they get to wear such silky things teasing their bodies all day long.
I like the old saying 'if it feels good, DO IT'.

 

Me too

 

We sound a lot alike

 

Not the same thing, but I went to school with lots of straight guys who wore "skirts."

The football team where I went to college had lots of kids from Hawaii and other Pacific Islands. They're just large people on average, so they were heavily recruited by our football program.

Anyway, I used to know these dudes who were like 6'4 and 320lbs and they'd be relaxing in a sarong. They'd wear them to class. So, in Western Culture, straight men wearing skirts isn't typical, but to other cultures, it's all just clothes. It's not gendered.

But it's more than just gendered, because feminine and heterosexual women get away with wearing jeans all the time, and no one bats an eye. It's only the men society seems uncomfortable with

 

I’m bi and I enjoy wearing women’s panties, pantyhose, bras and dresses…. I usually masturbate when I’m wearing them

 

I live in a country where men traditionally used to wear a lungi. I have adopted that habit and can recommend it to everyone. Wears much more comfortable than tight (under)pants.

 

I love wearing dresses made for men or made for women with a masculine twist. They hang from your shoulders rather than from your hips, so air can circulate under them during hot weather.

The ones made for men are often called kaftans or thobes, and can be made of cotton or another material that breathes. With no need for underwear, these dresses are my garb of choice in the desert during the summer. A light colored kaftan will protect your skin from the sun, keep you cool, and feel sexy while outdoors. My favorite one has a full front zipper that makes it so easy to quickly put it on or take it off.

I also have a few women's dresses from the thrift store that do not look girly. Those feel great, also.

As a pan sexual man, I like to enjoy some of the benefits of feminine clothing while maintaining my masculine identity.