More bi male bottoms than tops?

In my dreams I'm an oral bottom. When I want to penetrate an ass, my wife and her sexy ass fits the bill. She's pegged me and I love it. Just want the real thing.

 

I like both and flip fucking is always great.

 

I love to bottom. I love being fucked in my ass.

 

Versatile here. Love it both ways.

 

Dittos

 

Strictly a bottom never topped or really wanted to,a guy I hooked up with was strictly a bottom as well we never had anal sex but we did mutual oral and frontage with rubbing our cocks together .With women I can be and am much more assertive with a man I like him to take the lead as I like to be submissive to a man and his cock

 

I fuck my wife so for me I want to feel it in me. So mostly a bottom I will however fuck a guys ass that is built similar to me and not any bigger body wise. Don’t like big girls or big men.

 

Since you're only 3" fully hard and like to be sexually dominated, have you ever considered having a dominant guy lock you in chastity (cock cage), and letting him have his way with you ?

 

I'd say there are more bottoms than tops. I have no interest in topping because I like the guy taking charge. Taking charge = top. I don't think you can be a submissive top.

 

Then there are those me who list themselves as versatile, or can go either way. It seems to me that the tops just don't post o the hookup sites.

 

Oops. I totally forgot about them.

 

I second your reason for preferring to bottom. I feel the same way. I also think bottoms (wether gay or bi) are more open-minded and not afraid to let others know what they want/need. Just my opinion.

 

I think it's pretty "natural" that most bisexual guys ore bottoms with men. Most want something completely different than what they get with women, and yes getting pegged by a beautiful woman can be very pleasurable, but in reality, there's no dildo that compares to a big, throbbing cock thrusting in and out of your ass.

 

I love to suck
Cock and be fucked

 

I think we are doomed in that there are more bottoms than tops. If I knew the ratio were that two men were waiting to tap my ass on a daily basis……… I’d retire and become a slut. Lol.

 

I like to do both bottom and top just as long as I get fucked and he shoots his load in me

 

Hi guys I was married to a woman 28 yrs. Always fantasized of being naked next to another guy and it turned me on till approx 3 yrs ago I got real horny watching porn. Then gay porn that did it that day I had my first sexual exp.with another man .

 

This seems to be a pretty common theme amongst bisexual guy, especially those who are married (to a woman). Most want to experience something completely different than what they get with women.
I have always been a total bottom with guys. ironically, the first guy I ever had sex with was also a bottom with guys, though I didn't know that initially. While we enjoyed kissing, making out, giving each other handjobs and exchanging blowjobs (and swallowing each other's loads), we both ultimately wanted the same thing, which was to receive anal... And that wasn't happening. It was fun while it lasted but got a bit awkward when neither one of us was willing to top the other.

Even as a total bottom, I can appreciate a guy's nice ass, but in reality, I'd only be interested in holding on to it while he topped me, or possibly eating a sexually dominant guy's ass

 

1) Anal Massage Plus

Most massage customers enjoy being the customer, and they don’t feel the slightest desire to become a masseur or masseuse. I really like massage, preferably every other day, by someone with excellent technique and a lot of strength. Strangely enough, many people reject professional massage and cannot even imagine a stranger touching them.

It is well known that the enjoyment of an anal massage is extremely popular in homosexual circles. If you really enjoy it it is like a new dish that tastes exceptionally good, and you certainly want to repeat that experience.

Women typically demand 'confidence' and 'leadership' from men, code words for dominance. The 'plus' above refers to what goes beyond anal massage, namely exercising control. It is not surprising that men prefer to turn to other men for this task.

At a family gathering, I tenderly-but-experimentally touched the leg of a cousin (not to be confused with my gay cousin), and his hand responded favourably at once. I sucked him as best I could under the covers in the presence of many other cousins who also were lying on the floor in that room. As soon as we were alone in a room, he immediately asked me to fuck him. I was totally surprised, I had visited him once to tell him that I was in love with him, but had not dared to do so because I found no indication that he was interested in the pleasures of homosexuality. The way he asked me made me realize that it wouldn't be his first time.

2) Decreased Male Sexual Dimorphism = Less Masculine = More Feminine Men



Sexual dimorphism - Wikipedia

Watching the videos of a few bisexual YouTubers, I realised that I strongly disagree with most of the things they say about bisexual men, and it dawned on me that these are more feminine men, and that they may be right if they limiting their statements to more feminine men. I don't mean effeminate men, of course, just men who are a bit more feminine, due to decreased male sexual dimorphism = decreased masculinity = increased femininity.

This is also reflected in their high Agreeableness scores, which they share with many women (Five Factor Model; compare the 8 MBTI Feeler types), whereas many men, and also women with decreased female sexual dimorphism = decreased femininity = increased masculinity, have low Agreeableness scores (MBTI: compare the 8 Thinker types).

I think I realised correctly that my cousin was one of the (more) feminine men, and when I decided to visit him, there was actually a higher chance that he was interested in homosexually.

He later married a dominant woman who, in the opinion and to the surprise of the male cousins present, had no erotic charisma whatsoever. A somewhat harsh and masculine woman, we thought.

Opposites attract, and it isn’t unusual that dominant women are married to docile men.

Some of the (more) feminine men are attracted to (more) masculine women, and perhaps additionally to (more) masculine men, while others specialise entirely in men, because they are not sexually interested in women (= gay) or prefer the male option (= bi).

3) More Bi Male Bottoms Than Tops?

Since not all participants in surveys who engage in bisexual behaviour describe themselves as bisexual, and since there are no sex research drones or land-based cameras that observe all sexual activity, this question cannot yet be answered conclusively.

I must take this opportunity to say that there are too many women and men who wait for the missionary in the missionary position and then contribute very little to the dynamics of interaction. Such people might be better off just going for a professional massage.

In any case, I belong to the bisexual top faction, and if it turns out that bisexual behaviour correlates with bottoming, I am a minority within a minority, as usual.

 

It's funny to hear tops asking where all these bottoms came from - and bottoms wondering where all the tops have gotten to. Way back in the 1960s/70s, women gave men an ultimatum to get more in touch with their feminine side and, I felt, without given a single thought to how us guys would take it to an extreme and, well, be bottoms, from cocksucking to taking it in the ass because by getting in touch with who we are as a person, we tend to learn some stuff about ourselves and, I also felt, since we are the de facto top when it comes to sex with women, well, hmm... I wonder what it's like to be on the other side of the dick and like women are?

And a lot of men these days making it their business to find out... and having a field day with it. I had this conversation with a guy I've been mentoring for a while now and pointed out to him that there seems to be a difference between bottoming - being fucked by a guy - and being a bottom, which is quite a different mindset. Like, I can bottom if/when I feel like it... but I'm not a bottom. Interesting distinctions but, sure - lots and lots of bottoms out there who are looking for tops and, I dunno, you'd think that tops would be over the moon to find themselves in such a target-rich environment but many appear to be baffled by this explosive growth in bottoms...