Most likely you are a troll...but in case you are not - It is not abnormal or rare for an early teen to be a bit fascinated by a parent, especially if that parent is an attractive person. When it becomes unhealthy is if you act out on that desire. And to conquer that - you need to find a different conduit for that desire. No one here is going to tell you this is cool and maybe your mom wants to get it on with you. That is not going to happen. So if you are looking for someone to tell you this is okay - you won't find one unless they are truly fucked up.
Sorry, but you are incorrect. I didn't say they sit around and dream about sexual encounters, just basically a crush. I made that post basically on the odd chance he is not a troll, and for real. Which I doubt. But if he is real, I wouldn't start the conversation, especially after him noting he has mental problems already, by calling him a freak sicko. If he is for real, he needs to find another conduit and realize this feeling will go nowhere but trouble.
I tried talking to a doctor at my school about this and she said that there was nothing wrong with it and simply sent me on my way. I can't even enjoy watching TV anymore because I always leave my show to go masturbate.
I hate to talk over this boy but.... He is not an early teen, he says he is in college. A crush is different than fantasizing about and using a parents underwear to masturbate. I didn't see anyone call him a sick freako, and after he asked for advice and asked if this was normal, I said, "no, it is not, see a counselor, a professional" Which I still maintain it is the thing to do. He didn't say he had mental problems...he has Aspergers.
Ahh...didn't catch the fact he is college age (supposedly)...if that is true then he is indeed whacked. This reminds me of the saying... "we covet what we see"...the only object for his sexual desires is his mother since it is all he sees. Mad mad world.
I never said it was normal, nor do I think it is. I've said it happens more often than most people would think. I've seen references to surveys that say that 20 percent of college-age students have had some kind of consensual sexual experience with a sibling. So it's not statistically normal, but rather a small petcentage.
Get to the university psychology center and talk to a pro. Now. It's not cool, and do not tell your mom. It will create awkward feelings for her, for life. Don't be a selfish twerp. Get a therapist.
You have implied that it is normal over and over. 1 in 5 women is raped or molested and that is just the ones who have the courage to admit it. So that makes it common but not "Nornal". Every person on here who posts on incest you are on like a dog on a bone. You post statistics and links to articles and websites written by people who have had the experience and either endorse it or are in denial about how fucked up they are from it. You also post links to other message boards that seem to promote incest as an alternative lifestyle. C/S, Rev J
So I gave it some more thought and I have given up this fantasy once and for all. It could never happen, and I realized (with all of your help) that it would severely impede my future relationships with women, so thanks a lot guys.
Sorry to be the guy who resurrects a dead post, but it's been 9 months and I still haven't gotten over my feelings for my mom. In fact, they're worse now, since I get boners from hugging her and she's been wearing clothes that let her tits hang out more often. Help me please. I hate feeling this way.