Discussion in 'The Orgasmic Experience' started by autumnleaves, Jul 25, 2013.

  1. autumnleaves

    autumnleaves Member

    We all know that most women moan, grunt, and generally make pleasure noises, so why do so many guys give the silent treatment? I LOVE hearing a man moaning and I especially love being told when someone (a man or a woman) is about to cum or is cumming. Anyone else with me? Why don't guys make awesome noises more often?
  2. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

    I do grunt a bit sometimes during an orgasm but not loud enough that it would wake anyone else in the household. I never let my wife know when I'm about to cum - don't know what difference it would really make ?
    I know when she's about to cum as her body starts shaking & then she gets me to stop stroking her clit & then she starts to relax gradually again.
    If she wants me to stimulate her clit , she moves my hands towards it & I soon get the message to go for it.
  3. autumnleaves

    autumnleaves Member

    I love hearing about all of these awesome sexual relationships :) gives me hope for the future!
  4. autumnleaves

    autumnleaves Member

    Also, I generally find people who make a lot of really really loud noise pretty annoying. Can't even stand it in porn. The only times I have ever literally screamed is after finally getting to cum after orgasm denial for like 2 hours and the rare occasion of cumming while being thrust into :) I mostly mean that it would be awesome if guys were to make a little more noise. Sometimes I don't know what's going on with a male partner unless he gives me some sort of clue through noises.
  5. Quiet Storm

    Quiet Storm Member

    Oh man...I LOVEEEE when a man groans or grunts or even talks dirty during sex.

    I assure you, I can get a reaction.

    ...I had a friend say that they slept with a guy who was very handsome and masculine but during sex....he moaned very feminine like a girl. TURN OFFFFFFF!!!!!
  6. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

    The best part about watching porn with noisy guys is the mute button.
  7. Quiet Storm

    Quiet Storm Member

    HA, I mute it when the girls are too loud. I can't get off.
    I'm like "I wish this bitch would shut the fuck up, I don't know how this guy is fucking her." lol.
  8. the Nexus

    the Nexus Member

    It took me quite a while to unwind enough to make noise during sex and it's still not a lot. I'm usually so focused on my partner and the noises she makes that I don't make much noise myself, but when I'm being a bit more selfish it's a different story. Blowjobs really get me making noise, and when I cum, it's so intense that I have no choice but to let out a loud long grunt.

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  9. TAZER-69

    TAZER-69 Listen To Your Heart! Lifetime Supporter

    Moaning is like the cheering of the crowd. It lets you know you are doing things right. Love It!
  10. Spitfire67

    Spitfire67 Guest

    I have also been wondering the same thing-whenever bf and I are having sex he is so quiet while I fully make up for it being loud.
  11. autumnleaves

    autumnleaves Member

    I think if I were really really comfortable with someone, I'd just ask him if he would be comfortable giving more cues that way. My FWB is suuuuuuper hot and makes the perfect amount of man noise. Sometimes tho guys are just too quiet.
  12. *MAMA*

    *MAMA* Perfectly Imperfect

  13. Andrew0983

    Andrew0983 Member

    I'm a man and I moan and grunt a lot, and of course love to hear her doing the same!

    I dont love to talk dirty anyway, just let her know how full my balls are, and how I wand to unload inside her, stuff like that...

    of course when I cum my grunts increase and I almost scream sometime!!
  14. NovexusPrime

    NovexusPrime Grand Poobah

    I absolutely LOVE hearing my guy grunt and make animalistic growls. It really revvs my engine and makes me much more comfortable so I'm more likely to make noise as well. No creep intended but James Deen has the sexiest growl. Just saying.
  15. FireWitch

    FireWitch Member

    I moan, and grunt when I am having sex with girls :), or masturbate on cam for them. I just think we are taught to believe that women make noise, and men don't. Sadly most girls never bring up the fact that they would enjoy the noise like we would with silent girls. So we tend to remain blissfully ignorant.
  16. la Principessa

    la Principessa Old School HF Member

    I hate noisy guys in porn but I love when my man moans and makes noise during sex. Usually he'll tell me how good it feels, a little dirty talk, maybe tell me he loves me and/or that I'm beautiful, and he always does this sexy groan when he cums.
  17. Joshoa

    Joshoa Member

    Let him know you want to hear him express how he is enjoying it, tell him it turns you on and he will probably happily oblige you.
  18. YouFreeMe

    YouFreeMe Visitor

    I think societal conditioning stops most men from moaning, and keeps many women moaning. Living out the stereotypes.
  19. odonII

    odonII O

    It's a very American thing.
  20. *MAMA*

    *MAMA* Perfectly Imperfect

    I get creeped out if there's no sounds coming from the man. Moans, grunts, and dirty talk are appreciated. :2thumbsup:

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