Hi all , Need help !!!! in my past I have faced the question from 2 of my X wife’s that they wanted a MMF 3some however I wasn’t big on the idea , they were both very big socializes as a result Both my X wives went behind my back “ Cheated “ on me so they had the MMF 3somes anyway with their friends I lost a 4 year marriage due to this topic and an 18 year marriage also due to this MMF topic . also as a result of the 2 divorces happening due to the exact same thing I became like a work a holic after my second divorce and like walked away from socializing entirely . Now fast forward to today 13 years later I have since remarried a 3rd time and my wife and I have been together 8 years the topic of a MMF 3some has been brought up here now a third time and she feels that getting out and socializing and meeting new people as well as engaging in this MMF thing would be a fun adventure for us both however I’m horrified history will repeat itself yet a 3rd time , That if I show any type of resistance I’m gonna get cheated on again etc …. I need advise how do I approach this ??
Maybe you can figure it out with your fourth wife. Tell her you can start out with an FMF, than move on to the MMF after she sees how that works out.
Well depends on if the wife/gf wants the focus on her and if the other guy is also bi/bicurious. One of the hottest things I’ve ever done involves my ex. We used to play cards with another couple. One night after many drinks my wife and I started fooling around on the other couples pull out couch. While my ex and I were making out I feel my pants come off and I’m now getting a blowjob. My ex and I looked down and it was the other wife. Ex and I went back to making out. Progressed into ladies laying on their backs and us guys fucking our wives side by side. My wife was the first to cum. She got up and took a shower. I moved over and fucked the other wife and sucked her husbands dick. She said if I wanted her to cum she wanted to be eaten out and fingered. So I did that. Her husband fucked me while I made his wife cum. After she was done the other husband and I 69d till we both finished.
my objections are as follows , Simply put I just never had an interest in that type of lifestyle MMF “ Wife Sharing “ etc . And basically my last 2 wives wanted to try the activity and when I ( declined ) on the basis that it’s just Not my thing , they went out on their own seeking the activity behind my back , both got what they wanted and last time I checked that is all out “ Cheating “ . And as a result both relationships ended in Divorce and I heard the exact same EXCUSE from them both that “ Well you don’t want to explore and have fun adventures with me so I explored on my Own “ now : here I am 10 years later my current 3rd wife is now talking about and showing interest in the activity she has told me that she feels it would be Good for me to try it ( MMF ) with her , get out and explore Fun activities broaden my Horizons so to speak etc , so I did the following I agreed to it and I allowed her to take me to a local swing club just to have a drink & check it out reluctantly I might add but I went anyway , As the night went on we had a drink and just watched the clubs activities , my wife went to the bathroom and was approached by a guy and he was coming in to her hard , he kept touching her and it got my attention and a pushing match broke out to the point that it was a fight , needless to say we were all asked to leave and all I could do was look at her and tell her “ See I told you so “ on the way home her reply to that was we shouldn’t give up just because our first try to visit FAILED So in my eyes Ok I now have 2 Failed marriages and this 1st attempt with her Failed miserably , and now I’m concerned that if I decline to continue History will repeat itself yet again , and she will end up doing the exact thing the past 2 did …. And I will being Facing Divorce #3
MMF: One or both males could be bi. MFM: The males have no bi tendency’s. Only there to provide extra sexual stimulation to the female.
If she wants to try again, maybe she should let you pick the guy. I think I’d be in the same boat as you and wouldn’t want that sort of attention towards my wife. If we ever do it, I’d definitely want it to be someone submissive and not pushy.
