MM kissing

Discussion in 'Bi Sex Discussions' started by Pgbadboy, Jul 30, 2024.

  1. Pgbadboy

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    I've seen a lot of posts disuading MM kissing. I sort of forced myself to try it. Love it. Won't go back. Immediate hardon. If you'll suck a guys dick, or rim his ass, whats wrong with his tongue?
     
  2. Well I'm curious

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    I wouldn't say discussing.
    Myself I'm not interested in kissing a guy or being romantic but I would cross the line to try sexual experimentation with a guy, because I want to try this.
    I do want to try sucking cock and take it up the ass but that's because the idea turns me on and I think I will like the feeling of it.

    I don't want to rim a guys ass. I expect they are hairy, yuck. I have rimmed my wife's ass and I like it. I think she likes it a little bit. Well the feeling of it.

    I'm open to being rimmed. If a guy rimmed me before fucking me you can call it foreplay, warm up or lubrication but if he or she wants to rim my ass before taking it further then I think I will like it.

    I want to suck cock but I don't want cum in my mouth. I have a few hard lines but those things don't appeal to me.

    I think there is a difference between those who just want NSA sex and those who have more of an attraction to guys and gay or Bi sex activity.

    Not everyone rims others. It's probably been going on for years but I still think it's not for everyone.

    You know, they reckon some people don't like oral sex. Can't believe it right. .
     
  3. KDaddy23

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    It's rather simple: Some guys like to kiss other guys. Some guys don't. The issue is that it is being assumed that if you'll suck a guy's dick, then you should want to kiss him and that's nonsense; if you like it, then you like it and if you don't, then you don't. Try it... you might like it? Sure, if you can convince yourself that it's not "gay" to kiss a guy. I can count the number of men I've kissed on one hand and a couple of fingers on the other because I found out early on that girls were right: Some guys are seriously lousy kissers. Yuck. Having said that, kissing him is optional - if ya want to, go for it but with the understanding that just because you like it doesn't mean that the next guy will... or has to.

    A guy asked, after I had sucked him dry, why I didn't kiss him before going down on him and I politely said, "I didn't come here to kiss you - I came here to suck your dick." What I didn't say to him was that I didn't like him enough to even want to consider kissing him - but his dick was perfect to suck on and he was very good at sucking dick. Maybe I hurt his feelings, but that last part would have definitely hurt his feelings. So, no: Just because you suck dick doesn't mean you have to kiss the guy. Rim a guy's ass? Hell, no, and I've never met a guy whose ass I'd want to put my mouth on, but this is, methinks, porn's influence because you can't watch two guys going at it without seeing someone getting their ass eaten. Sixty years as a bisexual man and I've had my ass rimmed three times - once by a guy, twice by women and I'd never, ever insist that someone do it.
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    We take it as the norm that if you suck cock, you swallow cum; yet there are a lot of men who love to suck cock, but you'd better not even think about asking them to swallow cum or you might get your feelings hurt. We take it as the norm that if you're into sex with men, you're into anal sex - and there are so many men who do not want to be fucked and don't ask them to fuck you.

    Yes, there is a difference between having NSA sex with men and being attracted to them and, as such, more romantically inclined and we're now of a mind that we have to "be into a guy" in order to have sex with him or we're scared shitless to think about NSA sex with a guy... but how many of us fretted over having NSA sex with a woman? Think about that one for a few. The problem is that there are still too many people who think that bisexual men are homosexual men and, as such, we do everything that a homosexual man would do and that's never been the truth.
     
  4. KDaddy23

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    It's rather simple: Some guys like to kiss other guys. Some guys don't. The issue is that it is being assumed that if you'll suck a guy's dick, then you should want to kiss him and that's nonsense; if you like it, then you like it and if you don't, then you don't. Try it... you might like it? Sure, if you can convince yourself that it's not "gay" to kiss a guy. I can count the number of men I've kissed on one hand and a couple of fingers on the other because I found out early on that girls were right: Some guys are seriously lousy kissers. Yuck. Having said that, kissing him is optional - if ya want to, go for it but with the understanding that just because you like it doesn't mean that the next guy will... or has to.

    A guy asked, after I had sucked him dry, why I didn't kiss him before going down on him and I politely said, "I didn't come here to kiss you - I came here to suck your dick." What I didn't say to him was that I didn't like him enough to even want to consider kissing him - but his dick was perfect to suck on and he was very good at sucking dick. Maybe I hurt his feelings, but that last part would have definitely hurt his feelings. So, no: Just because you suck dick doesn't mean you have to kiss the guy. Rim a guy's ass? Hell, no, and I've never met a guy whose ass I'd want to put my mouth on, but this is, methinks, porn's influence because you can't watch two guys going at it without seeing someone getting their ass eaten. Sixty years as a bisexual man and I've had my ass rimmed three times - once by a guy, twice by women and I'd never, ever insist that someone do it.

    We take it as norm that if you suck cock, you swallow cum; yet, there are a lot of guys who won't swallow it; we take it as a norm that if you have sex with a guy, then y'all gotta fuck and, yet there are a lot of guys who do not want to be fucked or don't want to fuck a man's ass; we still live in a time where people think that a bisexual man and a homosexual man are one and the same and, as such, bi guys do everything that a homosexual man would do and this, too, is bullshit.

    Any of this and some stuff I haven't even bothered to mention is personal preference. M2M porn is not the way men are supposed to have sex with each other. Accept the truth as the truth and never accept perception as the truth.
     
  5. Friendly old man

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    For me kissing is connected with love. It's more intimate then sex. When I have sex with a men, that's for the sex. Kisses are for the one I love.
     
  6. GregS

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    I agree. For me, sex with another guy is strictly sex. He does something for me that my wife can't. Kisses, hugs and cuddling are strictly for the wife.
     
  7. Katana62

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    Kissing a man is so romantic and exciting. For me kissing is part of being sexually intimate with a man.
     
  8. MJSkier

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    I’ve kissed maybe 4 men in my life and none of them kissed like the woman I have… I think woman kiss better but men certainly most always suck cock much better..
     
  9. BG Williams

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    Kissing another man with deep hot kisses is hot. I like it, especially if it leads to more intimacy. I am bi-curious
     
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  10. Well I'm curious

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    Sounds like you have phone further than curious if you have had passionate kissing with another man. Unless you are gay and curious about Pussy.
    Eating pussy goes beyond kissing, it's intimate, personal and pleasurable for both parties

    I guess it doesn't matter what your preference is it's just some of us are not attracted to men in general but are either wanting to experiment sexually with men or are into men and happy to kiss and have sex with men because the passion is an attraction.

    Some of us just want to try cock or have cock on the side to use in ways we can't use pussy.
     
  11. topper

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    I said it once before. I would suck my friends cock but I have absolutely no desire to play kissy face with him. For me, its a matter of getting business over and done with. Kissing is for affection, sucking cock is for satisfaction.
     
  12. Joe shmoe

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    I love deep passionate kisses and sucking xock
     
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  13. Oldernow

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    I think I’d like to try it see how it is. I’ve only been with one guy strictly sex, but my thinking is if I let him put his dick in me and suck this dick why not kiss him
     
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    I have met men who are great communicators and are not afraid to be affectionate with other men. It felt good and natural to be intimate with them.

    Granted, most men in the USA do not have this quality.
     
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    My sexual journey has been just that, at first I was only interested in sucking a guys cock and had no desire to kiss him. After a few years and more sexual contact with men I bottomed for a few and loved it despite thinking it wasn’t for me. Bottoming seemed very intimate to me and I came away from it with the desire to kiss the guy that was fucking me. As said above some guys are just lousy kissers. It seems to be a rare one that is good at it. When they are it’s enjoyable. It seems like it’s much more common that a woman is a good kisser than most men.
     
  16. Well I'm curious

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    Whatever floats your boat. I understand the logic but then some of us don't want to kiss a guy or have a relationship as such. Just sexual exploration or sexual satisfaction.
    So long as guys are on the same page then everyone is happy.
    I have not sucked cock but I want to. I could say yeah why not kiss him too but for now it just does not interest me I just want to test the water, try cock and probably get fucked.
    The same as I don't want to try I'm but I want to try cock. But, if things get hot and steamy I might be into the guy and be more passionate than just trying to get off on a quick fuck or getting a blowjob from the guy.
     
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    If my top wants to kiss I'm generally ok with it. I try to be a good submissive bottom. But, I'll never initiate it. I'm just interested in what's between his legs and how we're going to use it. I had a FB who after many times together surprised me by planting his lips on mine, kissing me like his girlfriend. I went with it and soon his tongue was in my mouth. It turned out to be very hot in the throes of lust. But, outside our moments of lust I had no interest in kissing him.
     
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  18. Slimflipper

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    I have kissed 3 men. One was a very new bi-curious guy while we were mutually stroking. He leaned in unexpectedly and we kissed. Very surprising and he immediately shot his load. One was a guy that wanted to kiss with his cum in my mouth. Very erotic and I loved it. Lastly I had a top buddy that kissed during sex depending on position. Obviously my juices were flowing so I enjoyed it. if I’m there to give a guy a bj I’m wanting to use my mouth for that. Would rather the dick in my mouth than a tongue.
     
  19. Slimflipper

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    I have kissed 3 men. One was a very new bi-curious guy while we were mutually stroking. He leaned in unexpectedly and we kissed. Very surprising and he immediately shot his load. One was a guy that wanted to kiss with his cum in my mouth. Very erotic and I loved it. Lastly I had a top buddy that kissed during sex depending on position. Obviously my juices were flowing so I enjoyed it. if I’m there to give a guy a bj I’m wanting to use my mouth for that. Would rather the dick in my mouth than a tongue.
     
  20. Oldernow

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    Guy invited me over to suck him, I did and I was so turned on I sucked his nipples and the kissed him. I said sorry he said no I like it so we made out a little more. It was my first time just got caught up in the moment. I’d definitely do it again. Why not if you’re having sex it’s par of it
     
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  21. Pgbadboy

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    Lots of you get off on it.
     
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