Have you missed various opportunities to have sexual experiences, because you chickened out, or just didn't realize there was an opportunity presenting itself to you? If it happened now, would you go for it or chicken out again.
There are some I refrained from during my lifetime... 1) Ex wife's sister wanted to suck my cock...I regret not allowing her to do so. 2) A friend of my ex-wife wanted to have an affair...Yep, I regret that one too. 3) A gay man I was sucking off wanted to fuck my ass...I regret not allowing him to do so back then. I'm not an anal virgin anymore.
My wife had a friend she was messing around with. He didn’t know I knew but he and I were drunk one night and I think in retrospect I could have messed with him but I didn’t know for sure. When I was younger I had a girl come to my house and practically begged me to have sex with her. On one hand I wish I had but on the other she was freaking crazy so it was probably best
Years back when I still had a married life there were a couple of girls where I worked who gave me more then enough signs they were interested in hooking up. One went as far as sitting down next to me in my chair to rub against me and with her chin on my shoulder. I was so very tempted but chose not to cheat. In hindsight, it may have been fun to go for it. Sigh...
Yeah, probably not good at reading the signs though. Among I few things I coulda done was let a guy suck me off at a cruising lounge where I went looking for something. I couldn't get into him and sadly never been sucked off by a guy , yet,,, Probably a few females I was friendly with that I could have hooked up with, I didn't read the signs and I'm not very forward. Missed opportunities
I wanted to go to Atlanta one weekend to see the ACC basketball tournament. I was divorced and wasn't dating anyone special. So i went to Chapel Hill to play tennis with a group and met a very fine looking woman who actually played a bass in the NC symphony. She was single and a good tennis player even. so just for fun, I asked her to go with me. I then made an unnecessary commitment but didn't realize it then. I told her I would not even attempt to have sex with her. She agreed and we had a great weekend, saw the title game and others. we got along great. i stuck to my promise but it was difficult cause she was very cute and looked even better with her pjs on. but i promised and I kept my promise. we returned late Sunday and i asked to go to dinner on Monday night. She did. and after dinner, we went to her apartment and made up for all the missed opportunities in the weekend. She told me that she did not expect me to keep my word and she actually wanted sex. Oh well.
Yes, in retrospect I have missed signals in the past that I would now recognize, however I'm not sure I would now respond to overtures from strangers or guys I do not know that well. 'Friends before sex'.
Missed out on many from both sexes. Mostly because I chickened out, and some because I mis-read the signs or stuck to my morals. I do wish I never chickened out, but knowing me the missed signs and morality ones would have ended the same.
One missed opportunity in particular found me alone with a guy I knew was well hung. A female friend of MI e told me also that he was good with letting a guy suck his cock. The moment came and went, I had never done anything with a guy without a woman present. I chickened out and regretted it right away. A few weeks later I had an opportunity to make up for that and I did. I should blog about that later today. It was a great time, especially when two of his friends showed up.
I played college football. One of my teammates frequently showered next to me, and often made comments about “having fun together”, “soaping each other up”, etc. At the time, I thought I was straight and I thought he was joking. Dang… We could have had a great time … in the showers and afterward.
There was once when I was managing a construction job in another country and I was there for 6 months that a very good looking woman made it plain to me she was interested in me and I pretended to not recognize her intent. In retrospect I wish I would have gone for it. She was around 5 feet tall with a very nice body and I often think about us having sex now. She would have been a good time.
plenty and wish I had the balls to do it. One was this guy lived very close and wasn't sure if I would know someone close by, this was before I was out as liking men. but I would do it now, only as a one time thing.
Yes when your a youngster your not quite sure if a person wants to mess around with you so you miss out on a good thing at times. Probably happens a lot when your at that age but look out now I'm older now and wiser.........................lol Any one want to fool around........................lol
