Hi! Thank you for accepting us... My wife and I have a good long marriage the lastv12 years.. We are ok and we love each other and the fire is still there.... Before we got married we had a passion sex life.... She loved to hear dirty stories about being ruled by other woman....it was always our sex fantasy and we also experienced ffm two times... It was not exactly as she was fanyasized it but she enjoyed it a lot... Then childrens and other priorities came along in our life and all this sex life becomed much more vanila... Now at our 40s we have some free time for our selfs... alithough is very difficult to express her fantasies and secret wishes for her.... How i can help her because i know it is something she really wants .....
It sounds like you’ve shared your own fantasies already? If not, it would be a good start. I also like the nudist resort idea from the standpoint of perhaps getting her out of her comfort zone, but I’m not comfortable with using that as a connection to sexuality - being naked isn’t inherently sexual. Perhaps preparing a really romantic dinner, champagne, candles and all of that, and then a sexy uninhibited bedroom (or kitchen, or living room…) romp could help crack the shell? Try something mildly naughty - I got a l girl off on the Navy Pier Ferris wheel on vacation in Chicago once - something along those lines? It’s not always comfortable to be comfortable with taboo.
