About a year back my wife ask about us bringing another guy in for a threesome. We had talked about it before and I though, heck yeah. The thought of it really turned me on. For the past year I couldn't keep up how many times my wife got fucked by me and our friend. She couldn't get enough dick, fucking or sucking. We all had more fun and excitement than we ever had. Recently she just has slacked off the threesomes. We are still fucking all the time, but our buddy has been put to the side. I am not complaining, I have enjoyed. My wife said she has had all sorts of fun and wouldn't change a thing but just lost some intrest in it for now. Any other couples ever have this happen? We both love one another more than ever and are still best friends. Maybe a threesome phase for women ?
Why not get another woman to join you both - she may like the idea of being seduced by one but has never mentioned it ?
She has hinted around about a girl friend of hers. I actually had a dream about her friend and told my wife. She just laughed and told her friend. Now it's kinda a ongoing joke between us. I would jump at that chance but don't want to jeopardize our friendship. She is very close to us.
I don't think it's about age. We interact with swingers, lifestyle people from the clubs we go to and there are very active couples of all ages. Perhaps she just got tired of this specific friend. I like variety myself. Sometimes I'm not in the mood for sex with men other than my husband. It's like listening to music. Sometimes you stop listening to something. You may go back to that old LP at another time and enjoy it all over again, though.
The answer to your problem might be to make contact with another couple. I know these are much harder to find and to work out, but they do offer a kind of experience that is missing when there is only one woman for two men. In my own experience, one of the best was when my wife and I met with another couple, at a motel, and after some preliminary "playing around" in which we all got naked, we got onto the king-size bed and we husbands fucked each others' wives, side by side. While I fucked this "other" woman, which was exciting enough in itself, I could look sideways and watch how this "other" man fucked my wife. We could even talk while we fucked! It seemed like we all came at once, and I can testify that it was one of the most intense orgasms of my life. Just to hear my wife scream-out in orgasmic delight, from the fucking that another man's big dick was giving her, while at the same time I was producing the same reactions from deep within His wife's pussy, something that cannot be duplicated in any other way. I do understand that it is very hard to "Put-together" a four-some like this, but it is certainly worth working toward. And it nearly always starts with two men who are very close friends, admitting to each other that they would like to fuck the others' wives, and that they would be willing to trade their own wives' pussies for the privilege. This arrangement may be the most difficult to set-up and carry-out, but the effort is certainly worth the results.
I am so in this phase. 52, sexy and fit. We have a great sexual relationship, I just feel like I want to bring someone in to enjoy our experiences ... take it to the next level. He is beautiful and I love to watch him. I am mature enough to know myself and know that I would be extremely jealous to see him with another woman and I simply have no interest in women. He is more open than I am and could handle sharing me. Questions ... Is it better to have a someone previously unknown to us or a friend? What about STD's? How do you know it is the right decision? Thanks all.