My girlfriend and I have been having birth control-related dryness issues so we started using lube... the only problem is it is very messy. I squirt a little bit onto my hand and rub it on my member, but then idk what to do with my hand, because it's covered in lube. Does anyone else have this problem? How do I get around this issue??
I can relate because that's the one aspect about using lube during masturbation(in my case) that I don't like. I guess you can keep a towel handy? That's pretty much all you can do, I guess.
For Gods Sake...... Is It That Hard To Have A Box Of Tissues On Or Next To The Bed...??? Cheers Glen.
Try some molybdenum disulfide grease, it has lasted in the CV joints of my car for 10 years. Believe me, it never washes off, even your hands will be black for weeks. LOL.
Try a lube inserted. You fill the tube and insert, push the plunger and shes all ready. She can do it discreetly and neatly before you even get into bed. Can be used vaginal vaginally and annually (don't use same one) Benefit is that the lube can be inserted deeper. Also of you are not using latex you can try coconut oil. Its soooo much slicker and doesn't dry out like other lubes. And doesn't get that sticky feeling. It's good for your skin too. My husbands weiner is like velvet!!
We are a senior couple. When we have a quicky, my wife may need a littles lube. I produce precum. I coat my penis head with it. It pops in. I stay shallow and let her natural juices work. I never just ram it in.
That is the difference between a loving relationship and just wanting to have sex and head off home afterwards. No doubt you are also responsive to the times in her cycle that she is going to enjoy things to the full and you doth enjoy your experiences equally over a few hours. Some people call it making love, but very little love comes into what they do.
about lube I don't know much about it being really messy (i could see if you poured too much on her...) but I have experienced lube that didn't taste very good.
Yes, Agreed. My wife and I do connect 2-3-4 times weekly. However, we mostly have sex for the health benefits.(This is because we do love each and know each very well). We are home nudist as well.
all the lubes i tried leave a lube hand, thats the job of the lube. he just wifes his hand on a small towel i keep next to my bed.