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I've been bi sexual since I was 13 but gave my best friend who was 17 and I was 18 one night on acid back in 83 on the beach and I swallowed his load and was confused but figured it out and at the endcof the night he let me give him head again and I took his second load, that was the best of the best of discovering and experiencing to know that what your hidden and suppress desires and cravings i was beyond torturaslly keeping a secret that I would literally keep at any cost and I just hope that no one should break this trust that we all have that we want to protect right.

 

Relax, it's good to be comfortable in your skin. It's your business what your sexual desires and likes are, nobody's else's !

Enjoy life and the abilities we have, it's for living.

Simon

 

Thanx Simon and you are absolutely right with all that you said.

 

It's a shame the we as intelligent adults have to be ashamed or feel guilty about our sexual proclivities, acts and preferences. It's a shame that we have to label everyone because of their sexual preferences. It's a shame that there is still a stigma about being bi or gay. I was taught that any type of m/m sexual interaction was absolutely taboo, abnormal, perverted and sick. I went through puberty and quite a bit of my young adult life subconsciously feeling guilty and ashamed because I let a friend of mine give me handjobs and blowjobs. If my parents would have found out they would have killed me, or at least disowned me!! Later in life, during "dry spells" I would occasionally get blowjobs from gay men. There are some of my friends, and even a few family members that would shun me if I admitted this to them. They'd really freak if I told them that I used to suck my own cock, cum in my own mouth and loved it!!!. I don't consider myself heterosexual, bi or gay. I'm am really adamant against labeling or pigeon holing anyone, but if I was to categorize myself I would call myself sexually open. These days, there are more important things to worry about than who is sucking who's cock or who is eating who's pussy. The government, religion and all nosy prudes need to stay out of everyone's bedroom, so to speak. I have always said, live and let live. If what you're doing makes you happy and doesn't hurt me or directly interfere with my life then it shouldn't be any of my business!!!!!

 

Totally agree with Simon, I am bi

 

I've been bi since I was 9 and I have never felt any shame because of it even though I grew up in an environment that seriously prohibited such things... but an environment that I still believe made it possible for me and many of my male friends to find out that having sex with each other felt just as right and normal as having sex with a girl. I lived with the fear of my parents finding out but that didn't stop me from having sex with guys - and, yeah, once I figured out that I could suck my own dick, I had a field day doing it. The labels never bothered me because I had accepted that I was bisexual... after I learned there was such a word. It made me different from being straight or gay and I was good with being different then and now.

I learned that people can say what they want - nothing is going to change the fact that I'm bisexual. Anyone who thought there was something they could do about it found that they couldn't. My mom caught me having sex with a boy and I was sure she was going to beat me horribly... but she didn't; I still remember the scathing lecture she gave me about it and a lecture that I ignored and a lecture that told me that she already knew that I went both ways. Later in life, she had said, "I always knew there was something different about you..." I learned not to pay any attention to the hype and other bullshit being thrown around by people who didn't know what the fuck they were talking about and were dumb enough to confuse me with a gay dude and willing to forget the part where I said I liked women and pussy and... I don't have time to concern myself with such nonsense because I have a life to live, and bisexuality is a part of my life.