Men's Advice Only Please! Can't Bring Hubby To Orgasm Orally!

So, I've really been trying to expand my oral repetoire in an attempt to bring my husband to climax but nothing seems to achieve my objective, not even camping! He moans, groans, squirms but just can't seem to get him from point A to point B. Is it me or him? Is there something I'm missing? Only advice from the men please!

 

Some men don't cum from oral stimulation. However, there are some women who have mastered a technique that works well. Maybe you should include women's responses too. Do you feel inferior? Hhave you asked him if other women have gotten him off orally? Have you asked him what his deepest sexual desired are...without judgement? Does he know yours? Communication along these lines make some people very horny and ready to cum.
Good Luck!
V/S

 

No, I don't feel inferior. I know I give a bad A bj. Didn't think to ask if bjs worked in the past. He has told several of his deepest fantasies, I can't do that by myself! He has spent several years watching porn and recently gave it up. Was wondering if that has something to do with it?

 

For me, it is all about presentation. My wife has to appear to be enjoying herself or at least not appearing to hate it, before I can reach an O from oral. If I get any kind of vibe that she isn't it kills the mood. Other advice, firm but not rough.

 

I need to 69 my wife. Hard to just lay there. I need to pleasure her too

 

John'so advice works for me too.

 

If you come up for air, get your hands on it, if it gets exposed to cold, the blood vessels constrict and you will lose some ground.
Tell him up front if you want him to cum in your mouth.
Practice with lotion and hand jobs, pay attention to pressure and speed.

 

...slide your finger up his asshole! That makes a really intense orgasm.

 

Ask before you shove anything up the asshole some guys will shut down complete if you surprise them with that.

 

Yeah i teally hate how girls stop and let the cold air hit your cock. My wife says she needs encouragement to finish because her jaw gets sore. Its rare for her to blow me off because i take time to recharge and she wants pleasure too. Last time she was taking pictures of herself sucking me and like newman said i hate thinking my wife is not having fun.

 

More friction ! That's what I call for

Its not about sucking its about friction. You have to simulate what goes on with vaginal sex, what feels good is the sliding in and out, that's what makes the orgasm happen.

 

Oral sex has never made me cum. A hand job worked once.

I think with oral sex it's important to know what the 'sucker' is happy with at the moment of orgasm, so tell him if he can cum in your mouth, or where he should cum if you're not happy with that.

In my case, I'd like it to work, but I'm not desperate for it. It's all about the PiV for me.

 

or just start with tickling his asshole. And pressing on it gently. That may get him soaring.