Men, whats something a woman can say or do to make you cum?

Forgive me but I'm new to the sex world and just became active a few months ago. In the few times I've had sex so far I haven't been able to cum through penetration or her/I trying to finish me off. I know it's not a nerves issue but rather a subconscious problem where I feel guilty for doing it or something. Quite frankly I last forever and it kinda sucks...it sucks so much I'm envious of people who have PE. The last time we fucked I went for over an hour...ugh I just want to cum.

I'm trying to find out what other guys like the woman to do for them or what they like to hear to help make them cum. I'm in my late twenties if that matters.

 

While I am suspect this is a bit of a scam question given the amount of other post to this forum you have made I'm going to answer with reservations as to the authenticity of your issue.

The short answer to your question is nothing. There isn't a thing a woman can do to bring you to orgasm no matter how hard she tries.

The long answer is similar but but complicated as it has to do as you suspect, overcoming a subconscious issue. If you can handle my rambling please continue.

I would expect your problem to be a deep psychological issue based on your writing. While you are envious of people who ejaculate prematurely I am one who applauds your partner for staying with you during a sexual encounter for over an hour each time. She must really like you. But I doubt your issue is her lack of doing anything to you other than what she is doing already while you are having sex with her. Being in your late twenties and exploring your sexual world for the first time is unusual but not unheard of. I sense a lack of knowledge concerning sex given the lateness in life you have become "active". Let's cover what is happening to the man during sex before suggesting a remedy to your issue.

For the man the sex cycle is divided into four stages. The first stage is “excitement” followed by “stability” that slowly builds to “orgasm” followed by “resolution”. There is no distinct beginning or end to each stage because they are all part of a continuous process of the sexual response. The excitement stage usually begins within 30 seconds after he receives stimulation in some form. The penis becomes slightly erect at this point.

Next, during the stability stage the penis becomes fully erect. Contact by some means with the glans in the head of the penis should take place in order for the penis to remain erect. Insertion into a vagina and the resulting friction keeps the penis erect.This stage can last anywhere from just a few minutes to hours depending on the man's stamina and control. It seem like you have a lot of stamina. The next and most euphoric stage is referred to a the orgasmic stage. It is the climax of the cycle. This is where your issue lies.

Men can have different types of orgasm. Most occur along with ejaculation of semen. But there are orgasms that can happen without ejaculation. These other orgasms are rare for men but are just as intense in their own right. Orgasms men can have are anal, prostate, coital, masturbatory, and orgasms without ejaculation commonly known as dry orgasms. Dry orgasms can be due to changes in the man’s sex plumbing from injury or surgery. This may be something to consider with your problem. The orgasms I experience vary within the situation I encounter. They are mostly very intense but are different depending on how the orgasm is brought about and the psychological demeanor I am in. That is very important. There have been times I have experienced orgasms with different levels of each. I am able to enjoy masturbatory, coital, and even have had full body orgasms which come without ejaculation.

Once ejaculation and orgasm is complete the resolution stage begins. This stage returns the body to its normal resting state. This completes the sexual cycle for the male.

So now that I have bored you with all of that here are some things that may be hindering you from getting to the third stage. The amount of testosterone flowing through a man's body determines the strength of his desire for sex. If a man has low testosterone it could be he will not be able to achieve orgasm. Then there are the hormones which are released during each one of the four stages. These hormones regulate and tell the body what to do during sex. It is possible you have a hormone imbalance. Only a visit to a doctor for testing and diagnosis can determine if you have a medical issue preventing orgasm with your partner. But if you find that orgasm comes easily through masturbation I doubt there is anything wrong medically. But it wouldn't hurt to check and if there isn't anything uncovered with testing your doctor can suggest a psychological therapy and steer you to a qualified therapist for treatment. This is where I suspect your issue lies.

Remember though, there isn't anything a woman can do other that what she is doing already to bring you to orgasm. It's all up to you. Seek help for a qualified source and once your issue is solved have a great and fulfilling sex life.

 

A woman doesn't have to do or say much to me to make me cum.
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