Fat chicks are hot! Isn't part of the attraction to women the soft and curvy figure? I know it's a cliche to say but there's just more to love and hold. While I do find some skinnier girls attractive, I'm just more prone to bigger girls. I find the figure of chubby and even bigger body types to be absolutely alluring. I especially love a woman who is comfortable and proud of her own full figure. They aren't losing sleep over the fact that they are "over weight" and don't feel the need to change.
Fat people find love. Man, I've seen some REALLY fat people in relationships- I'm talkin' third class obese. I wouldn't date a fat guy because I value health too much to be able to do that... But a lot of people don't give a damn about their health, so why should they not date fat people?
If I'm completely honest I am more sexually attracted to slender girls, though not stick-thin skeletons - ones with some curve to them. However, I've gone out with girls of a variety of different sizes. My current girlfriend, of four years now, is a little chubby and I find her very attractive. She recently decided to lose weight for herself so I'm doing all I can to help and encourage her, but I always make sure to let her know that I love her the way she is. Some people get hung up on aesthetics and set their standards unreasonably high, but they tend to be shallow, ignorant, and uninteresting. Of course you have to be attracted to your partner, and heavily overweight people are not attractive to me at all, but you shouldn't choose them on that basis alone. I think my girlfriend is very pretty, but I love her for who she is and that makes her beautiful to me no matter what she looks like.
I like how the original poster who started this thread years ago says basically that women should date whoever they want but men should date fat chicks. How people get away with having a double standard in the same sentence I have no idea.
I could never see myself dating anyone 20 lbs overweight let alone some of these super-sized women who have recently emerged from their favorite table at IHOP, Burger King, or KFC Hotwater
I feel there is a difference between unhealthy and curvy. I love a curvy women. I agree if shes comfortable with her size its even sexier.
Well here in california where I live there is plenty of men who love big legs and big ass and stuff like that. plenty of men like thick chicks. but if you are 350 pound obese women who looks like you have trouble even walking 100 feet then yeah sorry but that is not attractive. Personally I find skinny, average, thick, bigger thick all hot it just depends on the girl. just like I find some skinny, average, thick and bigger thick girls ugly too. but I will always think a huge pile of fat that can't walk 100 feet without trouble always ugly. sorry but obese women are not attractive to me and almost all men and I am glad barely anybody likes them because being that big is unhealthy and a person of that size should stop being mentally weak and try to lose weight.
I grew up with my mother and five older sisters obsessed with their weight (still are) but I grew up the tom boy, with proper meat and muscles. I'd hate to be skinny, but any other weight is fine as long as your comfortable with yourself. As for guys....... they never seemed to mind whatever weight I was at, after my baby was born I felt comfortable with the love handles. I think your right about the as long as you have the right attitude:love: as for men, no skinnies for me, love the weight.........more to grab and love hahahah
me should not date ''big girls'' because of equality, this is ridiculous, no one can choose who they are attracted to. what, they should force themselves to date a ''big girl'' or to try to find her attractive?? no, they should date big girls because they want to and because they find them beautiful. there are men that are attracted to skinny girls, others that are attracted to big girls, athletic and so on. and it goes the other way too. different girls will like different types of guys.
I personally like chubby girls and they are cute in their own way and if everyone expects slim fit girls then what would happen to chubby and fat girls???? This has to be balanced and I don't mind dating a chubby girl!