Haha thanks I got that song in my head now I think triska has vagina envy and wants the world to know... Is there such a thing as alpha females... or does it only apply to men..
well think about it. by saying "that has to be a man" you're implying 1) no woman would ever act that way (stereotype) 2) only a man could act that way (stereotype) have you always been so prejudiced or were you just socialized that way?
actually, i think youre a man because you type the same, say teh same things, and are sensitive over the same issues as an old poster who has been repeatedly banned. not to mention the whole private convo thing you mentioned, on a topic that i spoke to very few about and, iirc, no women about really. at least, no one near so bitter as you
Like I said though, most of them think they've got one whether they actually have or not, so it hardly matters. So what if there's an "ideal" that they're presented with? Most aren't going to get it and are eventually willing to settle for less. If they're sensible, they get that quickly and settle for slightly less, rather than carrying on believing they can find someone perfect for ages and when they do settle settling for someone way way way less than perfect or even good. Not really. A whole school of feminism - and not a niche one, either, but one that's still referenced and respected to this day - called "difference feminism" said that women write differently from men. Arguably it's still a stereotype if it's true, but they talked about styles of writing which are more feminine ("ecriture feminine") and accepted the possibility that men could write like that but typically chose not to. It is a moot point though; while others have been accusing you of not being able to get a date, the basic point you made doesn't make sense. It's absurd to expect people to date or not date someone that they're not attracted to, period. Am I a racist if I don't find black guys physically attractive, for example? You'd logically argue that I am, but if attraction is based on physical characteristics, there are physical characteristics that are widely found among one race that aren't found elsewhere - say a broader nose (as an example, anyway; in reality I'd rut The RZA into the fucking ground). Attraction doesn't have to be politically correct or even-handed. We cannot help what we find attractive. People tend to piss and whine about the media, as if the fact that men are presented with an unrealistic ideal means that they'll flat out refuse to date anyone that doesn't match it (thus giving chicks an excuse to go on those mad diets or buy beauty products, knowing they can blame men and not feel guilty - another smart move by the beauty industry?). But the reality is, even if men want the big-titted leggy blond, they will eventually "settle for less", or be attracted to a person on a level that's not purely physical. Trust me, if fat girls were as unattractive as they're made out to be, no-one in the UK'd be fucking anyone! And of course, there's the old saying: fat girls try harder. I don't know if it's true, but plenty of people have told me that the less attractive a girl thinks she is, the more likely she is to be proper dirty in the sack. Whereas girls who are conventionally attractive tend to think that all they need to do sexually is turn up (and certainly won't do anything that'll mess up their hair!).
:lol: .... I don't know which is more amusing, your number one and two or your whole gimmick... This thread is great! And it's pretty obvious you are not a woman but hey if it makes you feel better I will play along with your gimmick if it will please you. As I had stated earlier this thread is amusing and your whole first original post was just a bunch of huey..."weightism"..haha classic... Hahaha This is the thread that keeps on giving...
It's true though, or at least, the way some girls go on, you'd think size 14-16 was a hideous whale monster that no-one would ever stick their dick in, yet the average size in the UK is about a 14.
"It's absurd to expect people to date or not date someone that they're not attracted to, period." bingo!!!! 66 posts of crap later someone hits the nail on the head and finally *gets what i was saying*. there are smart men left after all! thank you. i guess i have to be a man to speak out against some of the stupid crap feminists these days defecate from their mouths, eh? hahaha.
Haaha you guys are too funny.. Does it seem like most feminists are just neglected, frustrated and angry? Single lesbians that can’t even get another disgruntled lesbian to put up with their crap. You know if you be nice to people they might give you an orgasm. Even if your over weight personality goes a long way.
Can you point us at a specific feminist from "these days" that has said that? Because I've not heard anyone demand that men must find fat women attractive in the name of equality. They've demanded that men not dismiss fat women as worthless, but to suggest that that should be read as meaning "men should force themselves to be attracted to fat women" would imply that women only have worth as fucktoys, which is kinda... lame? I don't feel like I *get what you were saying* at all, to be honest. I didn't get the sense that you were saying what I was from your first post or any subsequent ones.
we keep gettin the same trolls with the same old axe to grind over and over under different screennames. geezuz people, we need some variety here! change channels! :tongue:
agreed, if thats all the OP had been trying to say, i doubt anyone whos posted in this thread would disagree with it
thank you all for completely spearing that fat gynocentric who came up to my husband how skinny i am and went on this rant on how men are all pigs for marrying the thin ones or some shit.
I didn't, that's why I used the qualifier "tend to". Yeah, I could've been more specific and said "girls who know they're attractive", rather than "conventionally attractive". I meant that the more attractive someone thinks they are, the less likely the are to "put the hours in", as it were. So yeah, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and I'm sure there are a fair few who are really average/plain looking who think they're the shit and that their sex partner should be the one doing all the work. Weird thing is though, with guys it tends to be the other way around. I've found that if a guy has a really high opinion of himself, he'll take a far more active role and get on with it, whereas guys who are less confident about their appearance tend to use that whole "emotional connection"/"making love" thing to get out of doing anything properly dirty.
Well I'm a financially stable alpha and I dig the chicks going for me. Love it actually. That said, the woman I married is the greatest, most gorgeous woman on earth and she is no pinstripe. I love fat chicks, I love skinny chicks, what I cant stand is a insensitive bitchy lil high maintenance girl. Thos ecome in the fat and skinny variety.
Didnt you score a fine gentleman with wads and wads of cash, crazy good looks, tender hearted mean ass killer total alpha guy?? or did you just do ok?:toetap: