I've only seen my husband cry a handful of times during our nearly 10 years of being together, and the times that he did were during situations where it would be considered appropriate. But all in all, it's extremely rare to see him cry.
i don't like a lotta crying from ANYONE. frankly i think it's annoying. sometimes women will say to me "i feel like i just need to cry!" and i'll be like "fuck that! you got shit to do and a kid to take care of right now, cry later." (this has happened on a few occaisions with my sister in law. self inflicted hell is not something i have much sympathy for.)
Umm, I've been close a few times... But erh, like really crying I haven't done since I was 8 or something... My dad put me over the knee and hit me, suddenly I didn't feel like crying, I just got mad, haven't cried since... Altho have been close here the last few month It's not like I don't have emotions, well it's actually nothing like that... I just don't see the pourpose
LOL yup! Yeah-I play my Drums when i'm upset too. My neighbors do cry a lot. Hey-I love your cats. Nice pics! Peace
I think its beautiful when men cry. Men can have extremely deep feelings. They can be sentimental, thoughful...inwardly-beautiful. Its such a shame so many men feel ashamed to show this. Believe theyre somehow supposed to not have these feelings. A man can be strong and still cry. Theres a saying i like, which is somewhat corny but true- "Only when you are unafraid of being weak are you truly strong". One of the most beautiful moments of my life was when my i heard my boyfriend cry for the first time. He seemed like such an emotionless, controlled, static person...then suddenly all this feeling hit him, and i saw things from deep inside him surface. And although it was tragic, it was beautiful. I agree-men should be strong. I love a strong man but it takes less strength to supress a few tears than to let it all show. Love-Maxi.Xx
see, dave cries sometimes, and it's pretty damned emotional. tears me up. dave doesn't cry unless something is just plain huge and screamingly emotional. i'm the same way. people who cry at the drop of a hat make me wanna vomit.
matthew crys almost as much as people breathe... Took my awhile to get use to especially coming from a house that if youd cry youd die...
i dont dig a guy that cries like a baby but i love a well put together strong man that can show his emotions in that way when he's just had it....when he hurts too much....crying is cleansing...and why would a man be above crying...he is still human, isnt he?
hmmmm, I cry lots but not sad crying, not horrible crying. I mean a few tears leaking, usually from happy things happening. As long as you dont' cry over every single thing (omg someone dirtied dishes, or someone was mean to me today, or the world isn't perfectly perfect) I don't really care
crying is a wonderful way to relieve stress for people. studies done on tears have showen that tears shed out of emotional stress have a higher toxicity levels than tears shed because of irritation or whatnot. stress builds toxins up in our bodies. crying and excercise relase these toxins. ever notice how you feel better after sweating a lot? or how you get sick easier when you're stressed out or depressed? please, cry all you want it's healty emotionally and physically.
the only time i've seen a boy cry was when he got hit in the nuts. Anywho, I can understand that if he's gone through something traumatic(deathof loved one, extreme physical/emotional pain) or something really happy,than it's appropriate to cry. But if it's like "oh my god i wanted fishsticks for dinner but didn't get them waahh waahh wahh" then it's annoying.
