Men can no longer win / women's necessary disappointment in the male

I've been with women in unsatisfying marriages before. But I bumped into them by chance.

My dignity stems from the fact that I do not seek women. I do not lift a finger. I refuse. I cry, wriggle, curl in dark alleys and corners, torment myself, abstain, subject myself to the most austere solitude...by I refuse to seek women until they also seek me. That simple.